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Did you choose a college major because it seemed like a racket?

I chose to major in English literature because it was the path of least resistance and something I was doing anyway. I'd read most book classics by the time I was nine..repeatedly.

To me, it was nuts..I was getting credit for reading books?!
I thought college was a scam, but shrugged and thought I'd play along with the racket.

I always read far more, and from more sources, than required for assignments, intimidating my professors, who kept complaining that I knew more about the subject than they did, and it wasn't fair.

I later found that I'd make more money working fast food than being a college professor or teaching high school English, after factoring in actual hours spent in
writing lesson plans,
commuting,
grading,
putting daily syllabus assignments online,
checking papers for plagiarism,
attending committee meetings,
advising students, etc.

I took home arm loads of research papers to grade and missed all my weekends, couldn't even talk to my daughter because I was always busy. HORRIBLE job

birdingnut 8 June 1
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I majored in Early Childhood Education because I wanted to own a daycare. I'm currently using my degree to teach ESL online so I don't think it was a waste. A part of me wants to go back to school for Art and Developmental psychology but I don't know if those are worth it.
I think what you plan on doing after you get your degree and if you love what you're doing greatly depends on whether it's worth it.

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I love Thailand. Whenever I have an opportunity I go there. But is your ex the father of your child/children?

Yes, I was married to my son and daughter's father for 22 years. I love that you love Thailand. Where have you visited? Hopefully, not just the typical tourist places.

@birdingnut I have been to the "typical" tourist places but also went overland from Cambodia to Bangkok. Loved every minute of it. Just thinking of it makes me want to go again.

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M.A. in theology. And I don't regret it.
But then I went to Law School, and I erased the bad karma.

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I wanted to go into Archaeology because I wanted to be like Indiana Jones. LOL. Well, that was in my early teens and then when I graduated high school i did seriously consider a career in Archaeology. I applied at 2 local universities and got accepted into both. If I chose one I would go into Archaeology. If I chose the other it would be Science then Veterinary Medicine. I ended up getting a scholarship to the first so I started my path in Archaeology. Loved the program because it was multidisciplinary. In addition to the department’s required courses I had to take biology, history, physics, statistics, languages, etc. I loved learning everything. I loved my classes, my labs, field school.

Graduated top of my department and decided to do an extra year to get an Honours degree but the department advisor said I should apply for the Masters program instead. I had 4 days before application deadline and thought no way I would get in but wouldn’t hurt to apply. Well, I got accepted. But at this point I was a little burnt out. Courses were fine but my supervisors hated each other and I was caught in the middle. I was just too burnt out to deal with all that and I left.

I tried other things for awhile then decided to reapply for grad school. Back to Archaeology. I thought not a chance anyone would accept someone who left the program. But nope, I got accepted back AND I also got accepted at another university out of province. Decided to leave my previous life behind and move to the next province. I gave the grad program a try. I really did but I had a family then and a household of responsibilities and it was getting harder and harder to juggle everything. I quit and hadn’t looked back.

I did love it. The research, the field work. I got to travel to remote places, camp out for months. I loved the lab work and working with my trainees. Loved the teaching part. But with family it was just not feasible for me to spend a lot of time away and concentrating on research. One day may be when I’m old and feeble I might finish my Masters degree. Right now I’m starting my own business.

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The “link” between education and career is a recent thing. Originally higher education was the Provence of the wealthy, and the home for “great thinkers”- with patrons or a marketable skill. Somewhere in the 20th century, notably thanks to the GI bill post WWII, there was a seeming correlation between higher education and lifetime earnings potential. There are some degrees that have some marketabliy- engineering for example. There are huge numbers of degrees where graduate or PhD are the only paths to any hope or expectation of higher earning in that field- that’s true for liberal arts and applied liberal arts. The job gaps in America at least are where there are vocational fields no one is going out and getting the correct training in- where I live at this time of the year HVAC skills are in high demand and there aren’t enough warm bodies with the appropriate skills. The vexing part is in “past” think, we all understood there are “physical” focused jobs and “mental” focused jobs. Conventional thinking was get into a mental job as fast as you can, but much of the “demand gap” is a bit of both. My degrees got me entry into a field, now it is what I accumulate as knowledge and the ability to adapt to change that keeps me employed. If I were to ever get another graduate degree, it would be purely for something of interest- like “letters” for example. I babble on lol I guess I would say in society people need to delink expectations of fiscally lucrative careers from education. People will be better served to figure outlets for their passions in life while also plotting a “job” path that will be tolerable and cover the bills. And people are better served by not linking career choices and/or degrees to “who” they are as a person.

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I always took the path of least resistance like water does. Sometimes that is good, so here I am today a product of doing the least possible. LOL

I have just been very lucky in life and would not suggest to people to imitate me. Chances are it won't work out as it has for me.

In life, there are always people who will tell you how to do things, as Tony Robbins does. Of course, he wants to get paid. LOL OMFG, there are people who are so sure that the way they have approached life is perfect for them and others. Let me assure everyone right now that is absolute nonsense.

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No, both times I chose a degree path it was because there was a clear course towards a specific job afterwards. There are other courses of study I've been interested in due to subject matter, but I couldn't clearly see what specific job they'd result in, whether I would enjoy it, or how I would use that degree to get a well-paying job in general. So I didn't go for those degrees.

I think a lot of people wind up hurting when they pick a degree that sounds easy or interesting but they have no idea what kind of job it'll lead to afterwards, if any. It's a much safer bet to put your eye on a particular job or career and then do what needs to be done in order to be qualified, which ftr is almost always more than just getting a degree.

I enjoy academia and need outside structure to learn the things I'm interested in learning, so I may go back for more or further degrees at some point, but currently what I really need is a well-paying job, so I set my sights on one (within a field I'm already interested in) and I'm doing what I need to do to get it.

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To answer the question definitively - hell No! My father played a part as he originally was majoring in architecture before switching to chemical engineering (more lucrative). However he kept a briefcase of drafting tools that I played with as a kid. Then in high school I took drafting classes as an elective so architectural engineering technology was my major and architecture is my career.

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I chose accounting because a) I thought it was easy, and b) it's a safe job - even in a recession accountants are needed. It's not sexy, but pays well enough.

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I was single and on my own so other than being young and stupid I had a very enjoyable college experience. I love taking classes and learning. If I could afford it I would be a perpetual student. The best thing I liked about my college experience is that I learned how to think: critically and with empathy. I was a studio art major by the way. 😉

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There must have been something good about it.

Not really. I had to quit to take care of my parents anyway as they were starting to fail, so started my own real estate investment business, then after they passed away, I moved to Thailand to teach English and ESL for a low salary, but such a low cost of living it was like making 6 K a month in the US.

@birdingnut Is you ex the father of your child/children? Love Thailand and its people.

@Jolanta Yes, I have a grown son and daughter. I was married to the children's father, a chiropractor, for 22 years.

@birdingnut I certainly hope that not all those years were bad for you. It is funny how when a relationship is finished we cannot remember that once upon a time, many years ago we were in love with that person. I cannot recall that I was ever in love with either of my exes. Funny isn't it. I wonder if they feel the same?

@Jolanta From being gender fluid (switching from one gender perspective to the other) all my life, until I discovered that derris scandens gets rid of dysphoria and blends my two gender sides, I found out that only males "fall in love."

My female side, like most cis, hetero females, only chooses the best suitor out of many-the one that gives me the best advantage.

This pickiness protects women since if they were to be like men..becoming besotted and obsessed with their male lovers, they put themselves at risk of being abused and taken advantage of, as what always happened to me.

With men, it doesn't matter, since they usually aren't in physical danger from their female lovers, and "falling in love" keeps them hanging around the mother of their children long enough to raise them, thus increasing their chances of successful procreation.

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