None of that for me. They had their shot.

Most of the time its a bad idea! Those are my feelings on it, usually there is a reason why it didn't work the first time

NEVER GO BACK! I think that people move on for a reason, and however much I may miss an old lover, it would be putting myself in a weird situation to try and reconnect to the way things once were.

This is just my situation, I know, but I change so much as the years go by, and whilst my old lover would get a greatly improved version of me if we hooked up again now, I'd feel weird about it — like I'd regressed. Not a reason not to do it, I suppose, but.... They wouldn't get the same person, and I'm betting that neither would I.

Yes..better the devil you know..?
I haven't done it exactly..as in returned to reprising a relationship with an ex.
However on two ex girlfriends..it seemed almost impossible to extricate ourselves completely because sexually speaking we found it difficult not to have sexual relations even though we were no longer together..its silly but..the love of body didn't die with the end of the love of mind or direction.

As long as it's not me and one of mine...no problem.

No. I married my husband twice. Shouldve killed him the first time.?

If both of you feel like it was wrong to separate or if you miss each other, then by all meas, but if you are only returning to each other because of familiarity, do not. Familiarity brings the problems back, while actually missing them can help you realize where you were wrong and try to fix the flaws you previously had.

Yes, we all have the capacity for growth.

Why not ! Anyone can make a mistake. And maybe the sex was great but the rest not. Your life, your choice.

Yes I do!

Sure.

It happens. I have seen it. It is probably rare.

I have done it. All the old issues are still there. If it crashed and burned once, it will do the sam
e--only worse! the next time.

It's never worked for me. You leave me, I move on. If it works for others, I wish them the best of luck. If you leave me once, it will happen again.

Do people really change? Somehow I doubt it, we evolve but our core personality is there by the time we reach early adulthood most of what we are is fixed. So whatever didn't work before still won't work if we give it a second chance. Sometimes we just want the familiar even though we know it isn't good for us.

I think if you break up once, there is no need to get back together. Because, really why break-up in the first place.

Why not ? As long as they got along.
Not every situation is the same.

Believe? It doesn't work for me. I just decided that life is too short to make the same mistakes over and over while there are so many I haven't made yet.

Why not? Some of the most lasting marriages that I’ve seen are the same ones that repeatedly broke up and reformed. Of course, there’s the added value of drama.

So, you're thinking a couple of your ex-lovers are getting back together?

I suppose it could work, never has for me.

Sure, after a little while apart you forget the things that drove you apart -- until they all appear again,, Not generally a good idea, in my opinion.

In general I would say, no, their ex-lovers for a reason.

No! Remember there was a reason for splitting up!
Once it’s done, friends is a possible scenario, but I would never get back with an ex!

No, but that's me.. I guess that would depend how desperate you feel..