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Do you believe in ex lovers getting back together ?

EmeraldJewel 7 June 13
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Not for me
...but people sometimes do not know what they are missing out on until they experience more

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Depends upon the strength of the initial relationship and the causes that led to its breakdown. Statistically I suspect such reunions are rare.

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It would depend on the lover and the reason they were exed.

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I don't not believe, if that makes sense, but it never worked out for me. That's probably more to do with me being a twat and lead by my dick than any rational thought process though 🙂

ipdg77 Level 8 June 16, 2018
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Whats to 'believe in'? There can be countless reasons why or why not folks should be together, whether they have done it before or not. We can't know what is happening/has happened in a pair of lives that would bring them to such a decision, though we can hope that it isn't a fear response; 'better the devil you know than the one you don't' as it were. Wish them well, move on...

StJohn Level 6 June 16, 2018
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Strictly as lovers or in a relationship?

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Possibly. Imagine you had a chance meeting with your boyfriend/girlfriend from when you were 18, 25 years or more since you last saw one another... you'd both have changed a lot since then, but maybe you both still have those characteristics that made you attracted to each other. Who knows - it might work out.

Jnei Level 8 June 17, 2018
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Currently wishing it could be, but not betting the farm on it...

lcmdws Level 4 June 17, 2018
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Only if they want to. Sometimes it might work. It will never work if either of them keeps on mentioning or asking about relationships they had while apart. To be together again they each might have to drop a few friends.

Ignorant people still want to ask me about my breakup with my ex. I start to cry and say everything was OK until she ran off with that circus clown. LOL 🙂

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I told my brother not to do this with his separated wife, based on my experience that it never works out. He ignored my advice and I’m glad because they went on to have 30+ happy years.

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I suppose it would depend upon why they parted. It's never happened that way for me. Baggage causes drama, and I hate drama.

Deb57 Level 8 June 25, 2018
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I think it can happen. I wish it would in my case.

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I think if you break up once, there is no need to get back together. Because, really why break-up in the first place.

MoniB Level 6 June 13, 2018
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No! Remember there was a reason for splitting up!
Once it’s done, friends is a possible scenario, but I would never get back with an ex!

Livia Level 6 June 13, 2018
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In general I would say, no, their ex-lovers for a reason.

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Sure, after a little while apart you forget the things that drove you apart -- until they all appear again,, Not generally a good idea, in my opinion.

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I suppose it could work, never has for me.

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So, you're thinking a couple of your ex-lovers are getting back together?

JacarC Level 8 June 13, 2018
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Why not? Some of the most lasting marriages that I’ve seen are the same ones that repeatedly broke up and reformed. Of course, there’s the added value of drama.

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Believe? It doesn't work for me. I just decided that life is too short to make the same mistakes over and over while there are so many I haven't made yet.

JimG Level 8 June 13, 2018
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Why not ? As long as they got along.
Not every situation is the same.

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No, but that's me.. I guess that would depend how desperate you feel..

Buddha Level 8 June 13, 2018
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Do people really change? Somehow I doubt it, we evolve but our core personality is there by the time we reach early adulthood most of what we are is fixed. So whatever didn't work before still won't work if we give it a second chance. Sometimes we just want the familiar even though we know it isn't good for us.

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It's never worked for me. You leave me, I move on. If it works for others, I wish them the best of luck. If you leave me once, it will happen again.

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I have done it. All the old issues are still there. If it crashed and burned once, it will do the sam
e--only worse! the next time.

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