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Uhhhhhh, short, blond, crazy person. Yup, that pretty much covers it.

Why crazy you ask? I don't really know . Everybody says it though so there ya go.

And just in case you are wondering, it's still hot and wet. And I have wicked muscle control.

My life's motto is "I was fine before you came along and I'll be fine after you leave"


Ever been out on a first or second date with someone, and awkwardly ran into either one of your ex's...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 13, 2018:
I was a bartender in a tavern and I went to work one time and all four current boyfriends showed up. Two of them were in the parking lot drinking a beer together, and when I went inside the other two were there. One of the ones that was in the parking lot went home and the other one came inside. So now I've got three of them in the bar at the same time. The youngest of the three, (OMG he was hot) got totally trashed and passed out in a booth so the other one that was in the bar when I went in, threw him over his shoulder and left. John, the one that was left at the end of the night actually knew about all three of the others. I don't think the other three knew about any of the others.
Most bizarre bedroom experience? I’ll go first in comments.
sewchick57 comments on Jun 13, 2018:
You can be the judge of how bizarre this was. I met this guy on hmmm, it might have been Ourtime. Anyway we met at a local bar and had dinner and talked for a while and then came back to my apartment. We eventually progressed to the bedroom. He would almost get me to orgasm then stop. After about the 4th time of that, I squeezed him. I have muscle control. He came instantly. I cracked up laughing. I couldn't stop laughing. He did not know what to think at all. He texted me later and bugged me for ages about coming back. When you fail the skills test you don't get to come back.
I'm very much atheist but find churches fascinating. The architecture history etc. Anyone else ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 13, 2018:
I love church architecture!!
Am I the only one who is completely underwhelmed by dating apps? The droid-like conveyor belt of ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 13, 2018:
I call those sites man shopping sites.
Vote for which affected you most. You can vote more than once.
sewchick57 comments on Jun 13, 2018:
I went from the frying pan to the fire. My mother married an abusive man and then I got married to get out of that and ended up married to an abusive man. Fortunately that marriage only lasted 6 1/2 years and I was really young.
I wanted to send a warning post It hit me this morning that abusers search out the "weak" (what ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 13, 2018:
There's a lot to be said for being a mean girl. You don't get hassled anywhere near as much. I am done putting up with crap and abuse.
Interesting... just read an article describing the "marijuana Withdrawal syndrome" characterized by...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 12, 2018:
Since I had most of those before I started smoking it would only follow that they would come back if I quit.
Now I remember why I keep leaving this site. I am a proud deplorable. Very glad Mr. Trump is our ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 12, 2018:
Trump is a grifter, con-man and carpetbagger all rolled into one.
OMG. Sitting here putting on my shoes, and ONE of these dogs farted so loud, I thought it was my ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 12, 2018:
I had a cat that could clear a room... of people.
Weird morning. I work with the public, and as you can imagine I’ve seen a lot. Today it was an ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 12, 2018:
You could always go with "I'm shocked you would ask such a personal question" and walk away.
"O Canada: You had it coming, eh. They inflicted Nickelback on us. We did nothing. They sent us ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 12, 2018:
Yeah, but they sent us John Candy and Martin Short so that sort of helps balance things out.
What would be your dream place to live? If money was no object?
sewchick57 comments on Jun 12, 2018:
You don't have any options for following perfect weather year round. I'd probably go with more of a nomad lifestyle.
What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger? Agree or disagree?
sewchick57 comments on Jun 12, 2018:
I don't know about stronger, I'd go with meaner. LOL
Sublimation: Process by which matter in its solid phase passes directly to gas without passing ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 12, 2018:
I lived in a place where that happened fairly regular. I would tell people it's not melting, it's sublimating and they'd look at me like I had 3 heads.
I just had a horrible realization I am advocating and pushing really hard for medical marijuana ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 9, 2018:
I'm pretty much allergic to the planet and weed doesn't bother me too much.
For women looking for men: would you go for someone younger?
sewchick57 comments on Jun 9, 2018:
The majority of the men I've dated since I got divorced have been younger. I do generally like men to be at least as old as my oldest kid. But my oldest kid is only 16 years younger than me so that kind of narrows it down a bit.
I have enough ex-wives to make me realize that I should NEVER get a tattoo.
sewchick57 comments on Jun 9, 2018:
Or you can get one with somebody's name that you might never see again. When I told the tattoo artist he said I was certifiable nuts.
What song was 1 on your 14th birthday?
sewchick57 comments on Jun 9, 2018:
Ummmm, the #1 song the week of my 14th birthday was "One Bad Apple" by the Osmonds. I don't remember that one at all.
I think I am completely insane, but maybe not? Tell me the worst job experience you have had. I ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 8, 2018:
I drove a taxi in a small town where I was the only taxi in town day or night. Soooooooooooo many crazy things happened. Probably the most off the wall though was the girl that took the taxi to commit suicide. She had me drive her out to the airport entrance road and said "I'll walk from here.". After I dropped her off and was out of sight she jumped in front of a semi. She tipped me $6 bucks.
Does it only happen in Agnostics or is universal? Yes, why men do not read the profile of the ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 8, 2018:
Personally I think it's because they think they're so special you'll make an exception for them.
To you fellow survivors! Guard yourself against becoming part of the cycle of abuse to your ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 8, 2018:
Both of my sons turned out to be very good parents. I figure as long as I didn't break either one of them I'd be doing a better job than my mother did. My right arm is bowed because I had a length wise break that was never set when I was just a baby. She claims I stuck my arm in the back of a door. So, then why didn't you take me to the fucking doctor???
Why are you still single?
sewchick57 comments on Jun 8, 2018:
Mostly because I want to be. I'm perfectly comfortable by myself and with myself. I love solitude and silence. After 22 years of nearly non stop tv, I really enjoy silence. I wouldn't mind somebody in the area to go visit and have fun with once in a while though. Then I can come home to my silence.
Have you ever had this happen? I haven't personally but had a few try to put on some country shit ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 8, 2018:
I used to road trip a granddaughter back and forth across the state, 6 to 8 times a year. We started when she was 10 and quit when she got her own car 7 years later. Anyway, I had satellite radio. The rules; no rap, no country, no talk. And when she was on one of her pop stations if it was too rappy I made her change the station. I also forced her to listen to reruns of old Casey Kasem top 100 countdown on Sunday mornings. I had a sub woofer in that car. She listened to lots of my music full volume and I listened to lots of hers full volume.
Aren't people that are a bit eccentric or a little bit off just a hoot to talk too?
sewchick57 comments on Jun 6, 2018:
Crazy people have more fun.
My poor cat has mixed feelings as I pet her while she's cleaning her self.
sewchick57 comments on Jun 6, 2018:
I had a cat that did not like to be petted. You could scratch her head until your fingers went dead but if you pet her she'll bite. For everybody but me it was just a warning nip. She'd bite the shit out of me though. Then she'd clean the spot I touched and give me a dirty look.
This is just for fun, I got $80 how many did you get?
sewchick57 comments on Jun 4, 2018:
Either $120 or $170 depending on if charged but not convicted counts.
Who's had some otherworldly experiences before, or ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 4, 2018:
I had a dust pan vanish into thin air never to be seen again. I had it in my hand and set it down and went and swept and went back to get the dust pan and it was gone. I was the only one in the house. I never found it. If it was still in the house I would have found it when we moved.
CAN  any Country SURVIVE GIVEN THE FOLLOWING? The folks who are getting free stuff, don't like ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 4, 2018:
And all the while you're whining about people getting "free" stuff, corporate welfare is robbing you blind.
Smells Ring Bells What are some smells that will trigger a strong memory for you and what is the ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 4, 2018:
Geraniums. I am instantly transported back to the greenhouse my grandmother worked in when I was a little kid. I was just tall enough that the pots of geraniums were at nose level and the greenhouse was filled with table after table of geraniums.
To Block or Not Block
sewchick57 comments on Jun 3, 2018:
I haven't blocked anyone. I probably won't. It's pretty easy to skip and ignore stuff.
My friend said I say "I forget things" and "i don't know stuff" too often and suggested a new ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 2, 2018:
That's cool.
Why are people stuck in relationships that are basically roommate's you pay bills with?
sewchick57 comments on Jun 2, 2018:
I asked a guy I had a short relationship with, why if he was so unhappy at home doesn't he just get a divorce. His answer was "she's a perfectly nice woman, why ruin her life too?" He never had a stay at home job their entire marriage. He'll probably end up divorced after he retires.
Ever have an affair..
sewchick57 comments on Jun 2, 2018:
Ummmm. Yes, but I didn't know until later.
I was married for 23 years. 23 years ago we didn't have a virtual cornucopia of internet dating ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 2, 2018:
The first thing I learned is how to recognize a Nigerian scammer. And from what I've been told and read, the "female" scammers are the worst. I put female in quotes because they're really men.
Gaslighting...who can relate?
sewchick57 comments on Jun 2, 2018:
My first marriage. 6 1/2 of the longest years of my life. Good thing I got that over with early.
Do you know the answers to these simple science questions? | MNN - Mother Nature Network
sewchick57 comments on Jun 1, 2018:
I'll probably screw up their results. I aced it.
When we all fill out our profile, and the question, married, divorced,single, you know what I mean. ...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 1, 2018:
Maybe they're separated and haven't seen their spouse for a while.
Here's the situation I'm currently in. When the ex left we had a sky tv and broadband in his name. I...
sewchick57 comments on Jun 1, 2018:
Actually I think it would be more like somebody new moved into that address since the bill is in his name. Tell him, the bill is in your name, cancel the account or I will stop paying. Since the account doesn't have your name on it, the unpaid bill will go on his credit report.
Has Your Ex Come Back Around?
sewchick57 comments on May 31, 2018:
My ex husband stalks me online from time to time. He's not brave enough to get any where near me though from what I hear.
When going out on a first date with someone, does it matter at all to you if the person drives a ...
sewchick57 comments on May 30, 2018:
Depends on the reasons for the beat up old car.
I’m holed up in a roadside bathroom while a nasty storm passes. Traveling to Colorado and the ...
sewchick57 comments on May 30, 2018:
From the radar it looks like you might be there a little while.
Deal Breakers
sewchick57 comments on May 30, 2018:
I live in one of the places that's the farthest from anywhere. We're used to driving at least 3 hours just to get somewhere! LOL I have a lot of the same deal breakers as everybody else. Conservative politics and big into religion are the top two deal breakers of course.
AC/DC-It's A Long Way To The Top (If You Wanna Rock 'N' Roll) - HD BEST AUDIO QUALITY lyrics - ...
sewchick57 comments on May 30, 2018:
Must be listened to at full volume.
Just to start us off with some pictures of my own work. I would love to see your work when you ...
sewchick57 comments on May 30, 2018:
I'll post some pics this evening when I have time.
Beware of the scam artists on this sight.
sewchick57 comments on May 28, 2018:
I haven't run across any here but scam artists are every where!! I even get them on Words with Friends!
There ya go! :)
sewchick57 comments on May 28, 2018:
I'm pretty sure somehow, someway, when my ship comes in, I'll be at the damn airport.
Hi. I’m a new member so forgive me if this is a tired subject. I just want to relay my experience ...
sewchick57 comments on May 28, 2018:
I signed up for a free Match trial and my account was hacked within 24 hours. I got the account back and then deleted it.
Cannabinoids remove plaque-forming Alzheimer’s proteins from brain cells - Salk Institute for ...
sewchick57 comments on May 28, 2018:
Works for me.
Filed. Finally. I guess we hammered out enough of an agreement that "okay, fine, whatever" became ...
sewchick57 comments on May 26, 2018:
I did my divorce myself. I filed and paid a filing fee and a serving fee. He was served and had 60 days to file an answer. He didn't file an answer and signed papers arrived in the mail.
So what is your most hated song of alltime? The one that you have heard so many times that you just ...
sewchick57 comments on May 26, 2018:
In addition to Freebird I also hate Jack and Diane by John Mellencamp Cougar. There are others but those are probably top of the list.
Life is too short to wear bad shoes.
sewchick57 comments on May 26, 2018:
I mostly don't wear shoes. Even at work I don't wear shoes. I wear shoes in and out of the building. I told my boss if the feet are unhappy all the brain is going to do is think about is making the feet happy. If the feet are happy, the brain is free to do brain stuff.
Is there any chance i can become one of the 144 thousand? If not, what is the point of believing ...
sewchick57 comments on May 25, 2018:
I asked one one time, if only 144 thousand are going to heaven then what the hell do you need me for? Confused look, door closed.
Today they found Lucas Hernandez. His body dumped under a bridge. A little toddler, murdered, almost...
sewchick57 comments on May 25, 2018:
She actually led a private investigator to his body. They were both there when the police arrived.
Elderly people should smoke POT to prevent memory loss, a study claims: Cannabis revived brains of ...
sewchick57 comments on May 24, 2018:
Good enough for me!!
Ffs The car I just bought? Two days after I bought it? Transmission problems. So there aren't...
sewchick57 comments on May 24, 2018:
Oh this sucks. Sure hope the flush works.
I'm a single father with 18 yo son ..that graduated 12th grade last night ...he came into the home ...
sewchick57 comments on May 23, 2018:
All kinds of really bad shit could happen. Drunk 18 year olds are notorious for wrecking cars and all sorts of stupid lethal stunts. But here's the main thing, if something happens how likely are you to be held liable for what ever happened?
Does daytime cannabis use cause insomnia at night?
sewchick57 comments on May 22, 2018:
I have run across sativa stains that kept me awake at night. Very irritating.
Question for all of you up around my age range[60] If you've been divorced at least once would you ...
sewchick57 comments on May 19, 2018:
I won't say never, but I'd probably just stick with living with somebody.
Favorite cover songs?
sewchick57 comments on May 17, 2018:
Louisville Leopard Percussionists Crazy Train.
It depends. If it's my ex-girlfriend, probably, my ex-wife, a maybe. The sex was awesome with my ...
sewchick57 comments on May 17, 2018:
My ex is actually afraid of me. He's already been homeless too. Sucks to be him.
What is your ultimate goal in life?
sewchick57 comments on May 16, 2018:
I gave up on goals way early in my life. I found that people that focus on goals tend to miss life. I prefer to not worry about a goal or destination, I enjoy the journey.
How important is eye contact to you on a date?
sewchick57 comments on May 16, 2018:
I went on a dinner date with a guy that didn't make eye contact once. I was real happy I had driven myself.
Curious to see if any of us, coincidentally, went to the same schools as each other or not. I've ...
sewchick57 comments on May 15, 2018:
I was enrolled in a high school for about a semester and a half. Does that count? LOL
Do you celebrate commercial Holidays? If so, which ones and why.
sewchick57 comments on May 13, 2018:
I celebrate major holidays because I get the day off paid. What I do with the time off is my business.
Imaginary friends are great... when you're four!
sewchick57 comments on May 13, 2018:
Friends. 4 of them. And a herd of 6 inch tall purple cows.
How can you be in two places at once when you're not anywhere at all?
sewchick57 comments on May 8, 2018:
Purple, because aliens don't wear hats.
Would you be willing to move out of the city and into a healthier farming lifestyle?
sewchick57 comments on May 4, 2018:
Maybe. If the right gentleman came along.
Looks like most of the US has four seasons this year. They just aren't exactly the same as every ...
sewchick57 comments on May 3, 2018:
We have three seasons. Wind blows from the north, wind blows from the south, and too damn hot for wind. The trees actually point north here.
How many divorcees threw a party to celebrate their divorce and what was that like?
sewchick57 comments on May 1, 2018:
I didn't throw a party but I bake a cake and take it to work every year.
I believe it's time to have a cream soda
sewchick57 comments on Apr 30, 2018:
Have you ever tried a cream soda float? Super yummy with strawberry ice cream.
What will you do if you won the lottery?
sewchick57 comments on Apr 29, 2018:
Start an education trust fund for all the kids in my family. Change my name and go on permanent vacation.
Tread Lightly So how do you respond when the Jehovah Witnesses or other religious groups knock on ...
sewchick57 comments on Apr 28, 2018:
Advantage security building. The only people that knock on my door are neighbors.
How to improve my immune system?
sewchick57 comments on Apr 28, 2018:
How often is your office cleaned? My boss sprays the whole office every morning with a can of Lysol and we use disinfecting wipes on a lot of surfaces.
Nothing is more suspicious than a stranger in a foreign country offering to buy you a ticket to that...
sewchick57 comments on Apr 26, 2018:
Or it could be some new, creative way to clean out your bank account.
This is supposed to be about things and stuff so I can get some points to get to level 8. Please ...
sewchick57 comments on Apr 26, 2018:
How about stuff and things? I have boxes from the last time I moved that are marked "stuff" "things" "rocks and things" "other stuff". Seriously, I cracked up when I found that last one. I kept the label off one box that says "sewing room kit" and down at the bottom it says "it's really just loose fabric"
I hate it when I'm just introducing myself to someone and I mention how I am an atheist. Only to get...
sewchick57 comments on Apr 26, 2018:
I get that a lot. I just say "yup and I'm drivin' the party bus, wanna go?"
The next time someone asks you, "What's your sign?" respond with, "Astronomical or Astrological?" ...
sewchick57 comments on Apr 26, 2018:
I always tell them my Chinese Astrology sign. Usually confuses the hell out of them and they stop asking stupid questions.
An elderly lady in my building asked me a question that she says is a silly one...but I don't think ...
sewchick57 comments on Apr 22, 2018:
Actually the answer is, it depends. Vinegar and water will freeze. If it freezes in the car's windshield washer tank it might break the tank. On the other hand, if you live where it doesn't freeze that wouldn't be an issue.
I see so many people referring to themselves as empaths (not here of course) and believing they have...
sewchick57 comments on Apr 21, 2018:
I had a "friend" that claimed to be an empath. Gawd what a pia she was. We couldn't go certain ways because there had been an accident at some point along the way and she just couldn't go thru accident areas where people had died.
What is wrong with voters in the U.S.? Trump comes in and takes credit for the economic wave started...
sewchick57 comments on Apr 21, 2018:
It's really not all that hard to understand when you realize just how many people in this country fall for scams and cons every single day. From what I can tell, they mostly suffer from congenital gullibility.
Pizza delivery on 4/20 takes a really long time in Denver.
sewchick57 comments on Apr 21, 2018:
We had a city wide power outage last night so even if I had wanted a pizza I couldn't get one. My building is all electric so I had to settle for cereal. Yessssssss!! Cap'n Crunch to the rescue!
Some religious fanatics commit an utterly incomprehensible evil by harming or even killing their ...
sewchick57 comments on Apr 21, 2018:
http://beta.nydailynews.com/news/national/idaho-woman-born-hole-heart-parents-prosecuted-article-1.2602490 Too bad this lady didn't get the surgery she needed.
I officially cut the cord to cable today. Still paying an arm and a leg for internet.
sewchick57 comments on Apr 21, 2018:
Since I live in a building that's on the National Register of Historic Places and can't have satellite, I get free expanded basic cable. The cost for internet on the other hand is ridiculous. I don't know that I'd pay for cable if I lived some where else.
What's with the point system, level 2 and what not? Just trying to meet like minded people.
sewchick57 comments on Apr 21, 2018:
It does seem a bit odd at first. But it's a really simple way to keep scammers out. Most dating sites have a ton of scammers.
Have you ever met someone who truly changed your life? tell me a little bit about it
sewchick57 comments on Apr 18, 2018:
I met someone after my divorce that changed me in a lot of ways. It's kind of a long story though.
Do you still subscribe to any dating sites or tired of them?
sewchick57 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I have profiles on a few dating sites and I'm a paid member on one. On the site I'm a paid member of I haven't met one guy. I'll let that one run out. I may try another one that has a lot more guys that are more local to me.
Customer service point of view. I have worked various public facing jobs over the years and I ...
sewchick57 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
The people we interact with the most at work are never called "customers." One of the top best things about my job is not having to make "customers" happy. We're nice to people but we will not put up with nasty people on the phone. The other day somebody called all bent out of shape about something and one of the other ladies in the office said if we don't have at least one pissed off person call a day we're not doing our jobs! You really do have to wonder about the intelligence level of someone that will call and scream at ladies that can take their money. As a matter of fact, if you call and scream at us, we'll use every tool at our disposal to hunt you down and take your money! And happy dance through the office when we get it. LOL!!
What's the most awkward situation you've been in?
sewchick57 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
Well there was that time 3 out of my 4 boyfriends showed up in the bar I worked in at the same time.
Are all cats crazy?
sewchick57 comments on Apr 13, 2018:
I had 3 cats at once. They were psychotic, neurotic and just plain deranged. I eventually figured out the neurotic one was seriously far sighted.
Hey Kansans! I'm thinking of hosting a meet up in Wichita. Who wants to come?
sewchick57 comments on Apr 12, 2018:
I would love to come.
Dating: what's your ideal age range? How important is age?
sewchick57 comments on Apr 11, 2018:
As a general rule I like men to be at least as old as my kids. My oldest is only 16 years younger and the youngest 18 years younger. My oldest has started to look old enough people mistake him for my brother.
My neurologist maybe...I'm way too open lol. What's a weird or funny fortune cookie you've gotten?
sewchick57 comments on Apr 10, 2018:
I have a tattoo from a fortune cookie. It says "a chance meeting with a stranger may soon change your life."
Where do agnostics go when they die?
sewchick57 comments on Apr 10, 2018:
Well, when people tell me I'm going to hell, I tell them "yup, and I'm drivin' the party bus, wanna go?" LOL
Hubble Telescope Discovers a Light-Bending 'Einstein Ring' in Space... [space.com]
sewchick57 comments on Apr 10, 2018:
I don't know how any one can look at pictures from space and think A God only created life on this planet. The farther we look, the more there is. I think looking at space made me more of an atheist than any thing else.
What does karma really mean?
sewchick57 comments on Apr 9, 2018:
Personally I think of karma like if you're a jackass eventually it's going to come back around and bite you in the ass.
Many religions allow a man to have more than one wife. In the old testament one reads of many men ...
sewchick57 comments on Apr 9, 2018:
Have you ever wondered what happens to all the extra males in those religions?
You give an inch ... Yesterday was my biological mother's birthday. I haven't spoken with her ...
sewchick57 comments on Apr 7, 2018:
Cutting off communication with my mother is one of the two best things I've ever done for my self. The divorce was the other best thing.
Do any of you get frustrated having a debate with Christians ?
sewchick57 comments on Apr 6, 2018:
No, I refuse to have a battle of wits with an unarmed person. It's a whole lot like trying to teach a pig to sing, it annoys the pig and wastes your time.
Shoes On or Off
sewchick57 comments on Apr 5, 2018:
I don't even wear shoes at work!
If you had to pick 3 of your most favorite authors who would you pick and in what order?
sewchick57 comments on Apr 5, 2018:
Anne Rule and Stephen King are the top two. The third one varies from time to time.


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