Most of the time its a bad idea! Those are my feelings on it, usually there is a reason why it didn't work the first time
None of that for me. They had their shot.
So it was always someone else’s fault?
@ezwryder The question pertains to lovers. In this case, yes. If it were just girlfriends, that's a different question with a different answer.
I have done it. All the old issues are still there. If it crashed and burned once, it will do the sam
e--only worse! the next time.
Do people really change? Somehow I doubt it, we evolve but our core personality is there by the time we reach early adulthood most of what we are is fixed. So whatever didn't work before still won't work if we give it a second chance. Sometimes we just want the familiar even though we know it isn't good for us.
Why not ? As long as they got along.
Not every situation is the same.
Why not? Some of the most lasting marriages that I’ve seen are the same ones that repeatedly broke up and reformed. Of course, there’s the added value of drama.
I suppose it could work, never has for me.
Sure, after a little while apart you forget the things that drove you apart -- until they all appear again,, Not generally a good idea, in my opinion.
In general I would say, no, their ex-lovers for a reason.
I tried it with my first love...and too late, realized the good sense in breaking up all those years ago. I’d like to think it can happen, but it hasn’t for me.
Truly depends on if they've both grown and overcome their challenges. Unless one was a cheating abusive psycho