Never happened t o me.

You mean it wasn't the work of prayer?

It can be funny at times how that works. The interesting part is that we can pay attention to details in our daily errands, only to discover there are plenty of little events we don't seem to have an explanation for..... A lot of them, coincidences...others, you have to wonder why...

In recent years I’ve literally told myself IDGAF for so many things and it has allowed me to sleep at night. What it means to me is not sweating the little things.

I think it's more like our perception changes. Perspective gets shuffled and shifted. Desires and necessities change with age and circumstance.

I don't think its so much the amount of caring as it is the drive to push it though. I think some things just can't be rushed or pushed into action. Having patience to simply line things up and then let them proceed at a more natural pace can be difficult for some people.

For others it can be a struggle to even get things lined up so caring is necessary to get things done at all.

Maybe we are all parts of a stimulation..game like sims..being played by alien teenagers...lol

Some people call that, "letting the game come to you". As if, things are going to happen, if they're going to happen. Not forcing the issue. Que sera sera. Whatever will be will be.

Sometimes things can be set up to happen if you can work it. An example of that would be putting aside 10 % of your salary some place that provides interest, and letting it ride. After a period of time, you've got a little bit of money stashed away.

No. Things normally get worse when I stop caring about something.

That happened to me a few times. Right after I said the hell with it.... my luck turned around.

I noticed to day I wanted to make a post and nothing came to me until I switched off my computer. Then I suddenly had 2 posts to make ! Weird ?

Nope.

Try not wanting a burger and see what happens ?

The 'verse will do what it does (and, yes, that an oblique reference to Firefly). I think it's like sleep - if you think hard about it, it avoids you. You think about pizza and you are out like a light...

Our perception of time passing changes based upon our focus. it's a biological fact.