I'm not sure why so many people claim not to judge others.
Your brain does it whether you admit to it or not.
I wonder if denying judgement comes from theism, with saying like, "Judge not, lest ye be judged."
How often have you heard theists' say, " Only God can judge me" or "God is the one true judge"?
No, mofo.. we ALL judge, and our brain does it BEFORE we are even consciously aware of the judgement.
We need to judge, for survival.
When people tell me they don't judge, I know they're lying.
Maybe they mean they don't judge unfairly or negatively..
But they do judge, and they can't help it.
You are a brain doing what a brain does.
Does judgement get a bad rap?