I feel this way after I was told a heartbreaking lie last month by a man friend. The hurt that you feel when being lied to, is it devastating to you?
Devastated? No.
Irritated? Yes.
consider yourself a lucky man
@Savage
I always have my friend.
@bigpawbullets Me too, her names Saska,
Being a healthy skeptic the terms love, religion, political promises, insurance premiums, stock reports, medical advice from a Doctor and not a Nurse. I'm not married or ever have been, am an Independent by Political Affiliation. The Legal System in this Country is becoming more and more psychotic each and every day. Agnostics are very skeptic people which is why we are on this website. I was able to see that the light at the end of the tunnel was not a beacon of light.
My ex told me (tells me!) he loves me, but he also says (said for years) everything is all my fault and I'm evil. Lies hurt and from a loved one cause serious misgivings about my own judgment, as I'm not capable of knowing even my own feelings-according to him. 18 years of that building up in my head. I'm out and doing very well. But trusting my heart to someone will take time, even if I find someone worth trusting.
When my intuition told me my wife was cheating and she swore he was just a friend. It turns out my intuition was spot on.
Actually it was the lie that hurt more than the cheating. If she had come to me and asked if we could have an open relationship I would have agreed.