I wonder a lot, and ask a lot of questions.
Outside, on a mountain, driving with the windows down, sitting in silence on a beach, or a forest, or a desert.
Surrounded by art. Music, visual, dramatic, new foods and flavors.
Engaged in conversation about something important, to the other person or myself. Deep conversations, even silly conversations, that grow in depth for fun.
Discovering new knowledge and experiences, listening, reading, watching, learning.
Road trips.
Meeting strangers with something to say.
Cultural experiences.
"Look up at the stars and not down at your feet. Try to make sense of what you see, and wonder about what makes the universe exist. Be curious." ~Stephen Hawking
Sometimes, just being. This is especially true at the beach, contemplating the ocean, or in the woods contemplating the ecosystem, or under a clear night sky far enough from the city that I am in awe of the stars. Watching a sunrise, sunset, or eclipse, or just staring at the moon.
During and after really good (i.e., mutually satisfying) sex. Duh.
During and after a really interesting and/or intimate conversation.
During and after performing a piece of music as well as I have ever done it.
During and after hearing someone give a great musical performance (especially if I was the one fortunate enough to mix the sound).
During and after creating a memorable graphic or design, be it a meme, a logo, or a piece of art.
During and after solving some vexing programming problem, or coming up with a particularly elegant algorithm.
During and after helping somebody beat a traffic ticket. (I am not an attorney, but am widely acknowledged as one of the leading experts on California traffic law.)
During and after cooking a really delicious meal. Yes, ladies, all of this and he cooks, too.
I when I am paddle boarding or surfing. No matter how many people are out, I am in my own world.
Yeah, surfing did that for me, too. Even just driving to the surfspot, when I came up over the rise on the road and saw all that whitewater, I'd get butterflies in the belly.
I love hiking to alpine lakes surrounded by white glaciers and jagged mountain peaks. After dark, I look up and feel awed by the glowing Milky Way and billions of sparkling stars. We all need more low-level ecstasy in our lives.
Hiking is an uplifting, transcendent experience for me. I feel most centered and grounded high in the mountains.
Seeing Impressionist paintings.
Listening to smooth, live jazz music.
Walking through an increasingly rare, old growth forest. A sanctuary.
Thank you, Stacey. I feel lucky to live in North Central Washington.
Mostly when I am creating something. The process since conception, through every improvement all the way to completion, to me that's priceless
I understand what you mean, I do that with writing music.
@TristanNuvo it does work with any process where the ultimate goal is to have a final product. I can see how that would work pleasantly with music
In the Pub, playing my flute
Doing something fun I enjoy.
Doing something fun I enjoy with someone I love.
In an amazing nature setting.
Walking down a NYC street.
Doing something creative.
Lying in bed at night falling calmly asleep.
Having wonderful, insightful, and funny conversations.
Sitting in meditation or reflection.
Watching a sunrise, sunset, or a night full of stars.
Nothing like an electric storm in the distance.
Outside in the crisp cool air away form light pollution and being able to see the milky way
Seeing an Aurora Borealis
Vacationing in a foreign country and finding little known treasures
Camping
All of these activities when shared with my love one and children
Most full of Wonder...
Looking up at the stars on the Hook Peninsula Wexford.
Most Alive...
Sitting on a beach on A stormy winters day, watching the waves crash in..the wind howling..throwing rain an sea spray into my face.
Most Relaxed..
Lying on the sofa..lights dimmed down low..candles lit..Listening to Bach...drinking good red wine..
Most Hilarious..
Narrating wildlife shows on TV in funny voices while shitfaced on wine.
I like the quiet and stillness of night (I'm a night owl) there is a certain peacefulness (is that even a word--oh well) to it that recharges me. Also, looking up at the night sky, in the middle of nowhere with not too much light pollution is awe-inspiring.
The truly amazing moments, the ones many people might describe as “spiritual,” usually happen unexpectedly. They are likely to happen under many of the circumstances you mentioned. I’m an introvert, so the experiences I enjoy most are connecting with something beautiful, whether it’s nature or music or art. The best visual experiences are the ones where you see something with fresh eyes; or as if for the first time; or when your mind randomly decides to disconnect from meaning and just appreciates something for its aesthetic qualities of color, shape, pattern, scale, etc. These fleeting moments trigger the pleasure centers or can elicit a strong emotional response and it’s not always clear why.
Some might say hiking, playing music, walking down a beach or some such, but, honestly, I have to refer to Don Henley “Don't you know that women are the only works of art.”
@Stacey48
Thanks for saying that.
I am most alive when I am camping under a clear night sky and can see the stars. I ponder the universe and think of how small we really are, living about 6 feet from the ground of this minuscule planet twisting through the galaxy being dragged by a tiny fire ball at an astronomical speed!
When I am riding my horse. When I am sitting in my back yard, here on the farm. Before I retired, attending a birth, and holding the baby's head as it emerged from it's mommas. When I get in my car and head out on I 90, toward the west. When I am at the ocean. In a thunderstorm or a blizzard.
@Stacey48 it is an amazing experience. I was honored to deliver a little over 1,000 babies during my years of practice. Each one was as awe inspiring as the first.
@Stacey48 I was a nurse in labor and delivery for 15 years, then a midwife for 20 years. I retired when I was 68, but once a midwife, always a midwife. We have had horse foals, a donkey foal, and several litters of piglets, so now I am at all those births. I miss midwifery, but I was happy to retire and have time to do other things that i love, so it was time.