Are you a hugger?
Do you feel comfortable giving/receiving hugs from strangers or people you aren't close to?
Why or why not?
No. Hugs are intimate and only for special trusted people
I love hugging but not necessarily hugging strangers lol
I have a Free Hugs shirt. Does that answer the question? Lol
Not from strangers. Awkward - and out of place.
But if I know and like someone, it’s pretty natural.
Smiles, hugs, all make a person feel good all over more than any where else
Like others here , I like hugs from folks I know and like . I find the best way to test if someone choses to be hugable , is simply to ask first . Usually , if it is a first time for someone , that had not shared a hug before , they either back off or spread their arms . For me personally , I am not interested in hugging someone who seems to feel on first introduction , that he has the right to hug me as if we were naked and in bed , by mutual choice , any more than I am interested in having some stranger stick his tongue in my mouth , at first introduction . A first hug , for me , should be platonic . I do have an ever growing list of welcome huggers , who I enjoy being with . There are others I hope never to get that close to . For instance , I am not comfortable around drug addicts , drunks , smokers , foul mouthed people , or those with poor higyne .
I love/need hugs, but not from strangers. Hugs are a trust issue & that has to be built, it is not automatic. But, from those I love, hell, yeah!
Male or female, btw, hugs are definitely not always sexual but comforting.
My friends, my family & myself - we are all huggers.
Not to hug. I have a slew of reasons. And then there are a few people that it feels natural so those are "to hug".
A couple of years ago at work, one of my coworkers went to hug me and I flinched only because I didn’t see it coming... Now every time she sees me, she comes over and says, “I know how much you love my hugs!” and gives me a huge hug. She tells everyone that I hate being hugged, even though I say it’s not true... it’s very uncomfortable for me, because people already think I’m standoffish!
My opinion is, If someone is happy enough to see me that they want to hug me, that feels awesome so let’s get it on!
@Crimson67 yes!! Everyone else acknowledges that it’s weird too. ? Just a few months ago we went to a funeral for a former student who unfortunately passed away, and she did it there and was telling other teachers from my school that I hate hugs... like, I’m standing there CRYING, and she’s harassing me!
Perception is greater than the truth. If you want to change this, you need to start hyper-hugging everyone. except me. if you see me, please don't. because i don't like hugs. for real. not a joke. (People think i'm kidding and still hug me. i hate it.)
If I know you then I will hug you if I haven't seen you for a long time. If I'm dating someone or in a relationship then hugs will be random and almost invasive lol
Friends & family mostly...I am quite naturally affectionate and tactile...
It is important to remember the others mileage may vary..they are not wired that way..which is absolutely fine..never hug someone that you even slightly suspect is not wired to be responsive to a hug. Never invade somebody's personal space by foisting a hug on them...nobody likes awkward...
So apart from friends and family..I reserve hugs for strangers in dire straits who need help and are reaching out.