I don't attend any churches and try to avoid religious people.
WHY would you attend another misogynisitic, oppressive church for no reason? Who cares what they think, LOL!

Stop going if you really have stopped believing. If the friends you’ve made can’t accept you and your decision then they are not true friends, My friends all go to church but accept that I am an atheist and it doesn’t affect our friendships.

Step on the toes stomp on feet ... If they know you as a good person then maybe your example to go beyond the thinking of the church will inspire a precious few, You can save them from eternal wishful thinking.

I've been on several prayer lists for a while. Worked out great! LMFAO

If you have to ask, then perhaps you should not.

That's up to you. There's no wrong or right about it. If your church provides a sense of real community and you either don't care about pretending or find that less costly than ostracism, then do what you want. But I'd suggest that the fear of ostracism and sanctimonious judgment should tell you something about the dishonest and unreliable and conditional nature of this "community". And I would suggest seeing if you can't do better. Is there a UU or liberal Christian church nearby that's viable? If so, it might be better (and a source of personal growth) to endure the culture shock of learning to interact there. In my community I'd take the Episcopalians over some KJV-only cultists any day of the week, but that's just me I guess.