I found it easy for me once the change had been made. I moved in August away from the downtown area of Colorado Springs. Now I'm in the rich part of town, known as The Garden Of The Gods. My new work and living situation were not too difficult to get used to. My home took a little longer. Do you adapt to change well?
Yes. A welcome side effect of being a life long learner is a readiness to accept new ideas and adapt more easily to changing situations. I enjoy change for the learning opportunity it offers. My field is computer science and I have to keep up with a rapidly evolving technology.
Surprisingly enough, considering I am middle-aged heading to older (56), I adapt fairly easily to change. MUCH more so than when I was younger. I am more resilient and flexible (well, except for physically, lol) than I was even in my college years. As to why this is so, I have my suspicions (medication for one, therapy for another, experience being a third) but cannot say for certain. This seems to be true for many of my friends. We roll with the punches, so to speak, better than their sons and daughters. They worry about them. While I appreciate their concern, I also remind them to remember when THEY were that age. Lol.
I've had to learn to be adaptable to change as I've discovered many times that everything a person loves, values and appreciates can be taken away from them at any moment. Last year I once again had to start everything afresh, just as I have at various other times in my life, so I no longer put down roots and am ready to move on again whenever I next have to.
Oh yeah. Cuz it's my job. I'm a project management specialist and all we deal with is "managing change" which is a bit of a larf since Change is going to happen, and you adapt or die. I'll admit, though, when something pisses me off it may take me a while before I can roll with it. But I eventually do...
Change is the only constant, everything is always in flux. We humans grow acustomed to static really quickly though, and this creates an illusion that change is abrupt and sudden, when it is persitant. Only dramtic change is abrupt.
For instance we are always aging, always in that state of change, minute by minute, yet we only recognize the change annually, and rarely notice the change unless we reflect upon the past, with photos or abilities lost due to age, or the growth of children which are a perpetual reminder of your own aging and eventual mortality.
Dramatic, Abrupt change is difficult for most people as they strive very hard to create a static environ, where they feel safe and comfortable and such change alters that perception. Few folks are comfortable with Dramatic Sudden change, and in my experience those folks tend to have pasts like my own, where Dramatic Abrupt change became a constant as a child, and then they grow INTO that, seeing it as the norm and the Static environs as calm pools in a white water river. You find this in children from war zones, and broken homes, and those weened in violence of all sorts.
Static Calm is a calm in the storm to them, even if carefully cultivated. For myself, no matter how safe the world around me feels, a part of my mind is always ready for it to explode in open warfare with little or no warning, from any direction. It is part and Parcel of my own PTSD, and something I have to work against in order to simply function in the workaday world. However when things are falling apart, when it is hurricane or Ice storm or wildfire and everyone is in a panic, I feel things are normal; that the inevitable has at last risen it's head and must again be dealt with.
Choice exacerbates this. If you choose a dramtic change you may feel unsure or unstable, but if it is forced upon you it can feel terrifying. If you choose a Dramtic change you might also embrace it and have great joy or relief, even in distress at your lack of static certainty.
The trick for somepone like me is learning to relax and enjoiy the peace, the static calm and not be so tense or paranoid for the next Abrupt change that I loose the ability to enjoiy those calms, whether they are five minutes or fifty years long.
Improvise, Adapt, and Overcome