Sigh.... one of my regrets. I've turned them down several times. Now I'll always wonder.

Ah yes ... makes me smile to remember.

Two hetero guys that were good friends. Oh , as all worked in the same place !

There's a more private group here where you may find more women speaking openly about this sort of thing. [agnostic.com]

I'm not a girl but, I've participated. The spirit of teamwork can add to the fun. It's essential to be a team player, and to respect the womans wishes at all times. One caveat for the female participant ,however. Don't show a high level of intimacy with the guy who isn't your every day partner even if you feel an emotional connection, don't show it. If your regular partner is emotionally mature this isn't a problem either but, you won't find out until it's too late. This problem can be avoided more easily with the addition of one more guy to keep you busy. The less intimacy the better for the husband or boyfriend. Additional participants also offers the opportunity for the men to watch and enjoy a refreshment until ready to rejoin the fray. As long as everyone has fun and nobody gets hurt it's all just fun.

How about you get a friend and we'll see how I do..........