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Why do we feel territorial about parking space?

Living in a three-plex, I have two reserved, covered parking spaces. One space for my car; the other for guests.

Have always felt archly amused when normally kind men swear at bad drivers while behind the wheel. Road rage? Not me.

But for the last two days, a Honda sedan has been illegally parked in my second reserved space. Using duct tape, I stuck two notes on the windshield:

"NO PARKING. MOVE THIS CAR NOW."

"Your car is in my parking space. If you don't move your car immediately, it will be towed. Towing is expensive for you."

"I have guests coming for the holidays," I told the building manager. She said the Honda will be towed in 24 hours.

I was suprised by how aggravated and territorial I felt!

"Refugees are starving and you're upset about a spare parking space?" I thought. "Put this in perspective."

The jerk finally moved his car last night. He tore up my notes and threw them on the ground.

After picking up the litter, as is my habit, I breathed a sigh of relief.

LiterateHiker 9 Dec 13
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...what your anger is is about tribalism...mine over yours etc...In all honesty we all get like that at times, either over something as small as a parking space or as large as denying an entire group or race (which is technically only a human construct to differentiate classes of people via physical features, yet we never call dogs of differing backgrounds races of dogs).

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Whoever parked there did not ask you, but just took what he wanted. He intruded on your turf, and that's nearly always annoying. And he was a sulky brat when you called him out. You summed it up in one word: Jerk.

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Your space is your space. Rules are rules. Having to personally enforce the rules we live by is always frustrating because we shouldn't have to.

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Humans act very bizarrely with parking spaces. I don’t get the obsession to getting the absolute closest spot possible. I’ve seen people wait for someone to pull out when it’s much quicker to get a spot that availability a few spaces further away. I’ve seen this behavior in gym parking lots.

I’m somewhat of a young buck still, so I typically park a good distance away so people that may need closer spaces can have them. It’s OK. The extra 100 feet aren’t going to kill me.

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