I didn't grow up with religion, to me, it's kind of a foreign concept. It's not something that I think about another person being, so sometimes I am surprised to find out someone is religious. I'm curious how other non believers experience their non belief.
Yes but it wasn't super evangelical as I went to tons of churches. But I'm as athiest as the rest.
Yes and no. Parents never went to church but the family kept bibles in the house, said god can see what you do and you will be judged blah blah blah. Had a friend who invited me to church a few times as a young kid, I went to play with the other kids more than anything. Sunday school sucked but never really thought much of it back then. Then I realized it was all bullshit once I took a religion course in college, full blown non believer now for sure.
I was taught that there was a god at an early age and this teaching set me up for a life of vulnerability to religious ideas. It wasn't until my 54th year that I realized that the Biblical account of the flood could not have happened and I subsequently realized none of it was true. Well I can't live my life over but I can enjoy a life based on truth and science now!
A long, painful process was required for me to make a break with religion. Though, I will say I have not been into Christianity since I was 12, courtesy of southern fried hypocrisy.
My family was non-practicing protestant until I was about 3 years old, and, long story short, was sucked into evangelical Christianity at that point. I made a "profession of faith" when I was a bit short of my sixth birthday, as did my three older brothers and parents before me. So I suppose that counts as "growing up with religion".
I think what happens to people like myself is that it takes so much to deconvert and pry religion out of your head with a crowbar that it dominates your mental landscape even after you've done that. Or if you don't really try to expunge religious influence from your thinking then it still influences you that way. One way or the other, it's the 500 pound gorilla in the room.
That is not to say I lay awake nights thinking about it. It's just a big part of my formative experience and I have an interest in helping others out of the harmful influence of theism, so I spend time hanging around places like this sharing my experience.
I appreciate that insight -thank you - I don't think till I read your crowbar part that I had given much thought to the hold it has on people even after its rejected mentally.
My family called themselves Xians. We didn't talk of god much. I stopped believing when I was around 10-years-old.
Yes, I was raised by catholic parents. Both sides of the family were pretty devout when I was growing up.
I was born into fundamentalist Christianity and preached it full time for 40 years. Slow, agonizing study during those years finally brought the light that religion is a crock of lies. My wife and I left the church and religion, and embraced atheism 18 years ago. Happiest years of our life. She died in 2014, but I am so thankful to know she died a free woman.
Yes, I was an altar boy! I grew up in a heavily ethnic Eastern European, Italian, Irish community, almost 100% Catholic, there was little choice. Ironically, the absurdity of the Catholic confession ritual and a course in biblical exogesis at my Jesuit university pushed me to a better intellectual place. Deep down, I never believed any of the fairly tales, but the local social structure was only available to me if I pretended I did. My kids had a choice, and they turned their backs on formal religion on their own. My son attended, with his friends, services at a Buddhist temple, a Mormon temple, megachurches, Baptist Church, and even some Catholic services. I asked him what he found out. He told me the Buddhists had the best food. B-)
My family was a "Christmas/Easter" sort of group but, for some reason, they decided to force me to go to Sunday school at the local Southern Baptist church. It took about two years before I could stand up and refuse! Even as a young teen, I knew this was BULL!