Pro, very tolerant of people's quirks.
Con, deeply addicted to my work in live theatre.

Can't remember

pro- i love having someone else to look out for and plan around their likes/dislikes

con- the way i understand what they think i don't think about or underrstand

Well, I think this changes over time, just as everything else does. But at this moment:

Pro: I'm not demanding and have no interest in becoming a significant part of someone else's life.

Con: same as above

Pro - a close person can confess to me just about anything without me judging them
Cons - Anxiety

here again: our profiles become more & more similar, birdingnut

i'm a physical/sensual being & good at massage - i only eat vegetarian organic food if i can help it.

One behavior that helps me is that I do not hold grudges and I do not hold on to problems. Rather, I atttempt to find and implement effective resolutions to problems that emerge. Negative -- I can be demanding.

Pro Flexibility, easy going.

Con PTSD

Pros: I have a good sense of humor and am reasonably well informed about what's going on in the world. I'm willing to help my partner with projects/tasks when needed.

Cons: I'm very insecure and have low self-esteem, so I need to be reassured too often. That makes me clingy.

That is an interesting question that has much to do with culture. I find it upsetting that many think touching is only about sex, unless it's a professional, such as a doctor. The more relgious people are or have been the more this seems so. When 'touchee - feelie' people only do this with those they are sexually attracted to, it is often an unwanted sexual advance for self gratification, I think. Maybe some cultures are conditioned to respond only sexually to human touch which makes it a huge taboo, increasing that sexual tension even more. What contributes to a positive relationship, to me, means that we have empathy for the other, have no expectations of each other than to be honest, trustworthy and authentic. The rest will happen naturally. If that doesn't work, then there is no point in going further.

Pro--I'm ambitious, so I don't need my hand held.
Con--Im ambitious, so I don't have time for people who need their hands held.

Pro--I'm a pacifist and prefer peace to arguments.
Con-- I'm a pacifist and animal consumption is a deal-breaker.

Pro- I like doing things for my partner that she might not want/can't do.
Con- I'll ask my ex and send the list....

Pro - I am open and honest with and about who I am.

Con - I'm happy with who I am and will not change for anyone but myself.

I can pretend to be interested and conversant on any topic,
your friends will bore me to tears.

Honesty, trust, good sense of humour with sarcasm, good at DIY and handy at lots of things in a house.

I can keep your car running, and I can make a grow house I can cook too.