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Why Men Send Dick Pics

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VictoriaNotes 9 Mar 19

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Because they want us to laugh at their shorties.


Some men ego trip alot, must have had women in there lives entertaining that mentality before.

Or no women at all.


It's the same reason that some women send tit picks.

How many unsolicited vulva pics have you received?


I have nothing. I've never sent one and I have no plans on it in the near future. I could only guess that these guys who do it are really proud of their dicks.


Since some people think l am a Dick, they just need to look at my profile photo.


I have no idea and some are just right of the bat. I guess when they send them pretty early on it just gives me the opportunity to see what they're working with, and know whether they're worth my time. In most cases size does matter, so It's good to know. ?


I'm new do I delete a'm desperate..

nothing to do with this thread,honest 😉


interesting read. the way men and women view sex, or its pursuite is different, this much i knew. there is always the exception, i have meet a few over the years. i wondered if it was because so many men had sent them dick pics, that they thought this would be ok with me. it was not. i look at the big picture, and not just the pic sent. the behaviour is what i had issue with, not the actual pictures. while i am very sexual myself. i have always understood there is a place and time for everything. if you are sending me nude pics, it had better be after we have slept together. i wish these men would learn to think with the other head. i get tired of having to deal with the obsticle of talking to women on dating sites, that are all to familiar with guys and their dick pics. its hard enough meeting women on dating sites, without having this looming attitude with them while they see if you are one of the idiots sending dick picks or not.


I really don’t understand this. I have never sent a dick pic that wasn’t requested. I don’t even send dick pics to every woman that has requested one. You never know if you are being catfished or not. I have to know you before you get a dick pic. And now the only that gets them is my girlfriend.


Good answers. Certainly it's criminal when you get down to it. Another related question is why are so many women with men that have sent them unprompted dick picks? I know many, and they speak on it like they're more flattered and excited by it than disgusted.

Interesting. I've yet to meet a woman who was flattered by unsolicited dick pics, although I'm sure they're out there -- likely the ones just wanting to fuck, nothing more.

@VictoriaNotes These are people in relationships. One I can think of is married. It's possible that they just want sex with the other person and are just going along with the relationship for it, but who knows?


10% of the time, it works every time


They're just showing off the god they follow.


I think men are genetically more predisposed to respond to visual stimulation than women.
So they send one for 2 different reasons, 1: because they think women will respond to it in the same way as they would if they received a similar pic from a woman, and 2: in the vain hope they'll be reciprocated in the same way.
The problem is a lack of self awareness and intelligence in the male community.


I think a better question might be why do you folks think penises are either shameful, offensive or disgusting?

You folks may say you reject the churches teachings but apparently not all of the churches teachings were bad.

Sister Mary Catherine taught you well.

Our society does not show them all the time. We only encounter them when we are being intimidate with a man, which should always imply consent. This has nothing to do with religious beliefs, but social standards that we have come to expect. Unexpectedly and suddenly seeing them when no such intimacy exists tells us that the person so exposed is perceiving us sexually, when we are typically at a point where we are trying to establish a personal connection instead. It’s offensive because it says that who we are is less important to the person exposing himself than the fact that he sees us as an object of reception to his sexuality. The penis itself isn’t shameful, but exposing it this way should be.


So what we're saying is it's only men that send pics of their 'private parts'? Seriously, get a life people!!! I have received way more pussy/tit pics than I have ever sent dick pics. Just saying........

Oh and let me just qualify that slightly. I have sent dick pics but only after I've received something similar from a woman. Honestly, some of the sanctimonious shit I've read on here from men makes me think that there are some christians interloping on this site.

Just curious, did you read the article? I don't think people are talking about solicited or consensual pictures of each other.


That article was pure speculation at best, and totally slanted at worse. On that topic, I'm convinced the door swings both ways. Personally, I never have and never will send any woman I had met online photos of me below the belt, what I have down there is my business and no one else's. Of all the men I had met online and consider friends, none of them engage in that behavior either. On the flip side, I can't tell you how many times I've received unsolicited nudes from women of varying ages. In fact, on one app I had used the spamming got so bad that I decided to abandon it and move on to another, as admin did absolutely nothing to resolve the issue. I am currently active on another app similar in function to this one, and there are about two dozen channels dedicated to sharing nude female selfies, and not a single one for men, so much that some women on there are pushing for a nude male selfie channel. I can agree there are plenty of perverse men online who would be guilty of such, but I think the sending of unsolicited genitalia photos is something engaged on both sides. At least this app has shown promise in the sense that there appears to be very little to no spamming of that nature, considering this platform doubles as a dating site, which is good.

So, am I understanding that what you are saying is that there's an equal amount of women sending unsolicited pictures of their genitals as men? Were they prostitutes?

@VictoriaNotes Not in the least, and they had interacted with fellow users on public threads, so the regular users knew who they were, and for the most part they were exhibitionists, which I am not against per se but only wish they would have left me out of it. Regarding the ones on the other app I mentioned- they aren't prostitutes either, and most of them provided other social media contact information and what they did for their professions, not a single one a prostitute.

@VictoriaNotes Sorry, forgot to answer your first question. Yes, based on what I have witnessed after being on three different platforms, and I had observed fellow app users on there complain more about female nudes than male.

@SpikeTalon Interesting. You're the first guy I've met who said women sent pictures of their gentiles unsolicited. I've no doubt there are women in cyberland who do this, but if they are as plentiful as you are suggesting, the guys aren't saying so. Lots of women I know (including myself) have experienced this (even on this site) and not just for sexual reasons but for purposes of intimidating and trolling. I may start a post and ask how many guys here have received unsolicited pictures of women's genitals.

@VictoriaNotes That idea for the post sounds interesting. The men that I've been in contact with/met online who shared those details with me for the most part kept to themselves on that, aside from reporting it to admin, which did very little to resolve the issue. Thank you for your feedback.

@SpikeTalon And yours as well.

@VictoriaNotes EXACTLY- even though the men who send the dick pics don't even know you it's a way to exert power and control from afar. They love the idea of you opening it and being shocked and taken aback.

@HopefullyWiser Could you please explain as to how sending nude photos equates to exerting power and control? If you believe that much to be true, then technically I could say the same thing when I received unwanted naked photos of women below the belt, but hardly anyone seems to care about that though, at least not from what I see anyway. While I was somewhat shocked upon receiving such photos on another app, the shock quickly faded and I reported those users, I refused to be intimidated. I know I cannot possibly be the only guy out there who that has gone through such, and that has happened to me now on more than one platform, at least this site has been good so far.


Perhaps for the same reason woman send nudes


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balou Level 8 Mar 21, 2018

Gross is in the eye of the beholder! LOL


Of course, the real answer to the question of why SOME men send dick pics is, because the don't have vaginas!


This one is even worse 🙂



Nomad Level 6 Mar 19, 2018

Well Ihave never done a dick pick but think about it like this. If a guy sends a dick pick too one girl that odds of her msging back the she is DTF are low but you send it too 10 Girls they are higher at the end of the day he just wants too Smash.

Girls? Now that's sicko creepy.

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