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Why Men Send Dick Pics

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[psychologytoday.com]

VictoriaNotes 9 Mar 19

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Men in accurate desription don't do these things. Males doing them are arrested in their sexual and emotional development due to untold but only imaginable damage. Their many juvenile, often destructive behaviors make actually being a man rather embarrassing in many circumstances. Furthermore, even the behaviors of lesser botched individuals makes it very difficult for us to honestly represent ourselves because of the natural barriers women understandably set up as a result of other males' conduct.

For example, being taken at one's word regarding such simple things as invitations out to points of interest, lunch, brunch, dinner etc. are most often evaluated and decided upon by women with a cautious aire of anticipation that one actually may not mean what they say or expects more from the meeting than what is stated. Men who say what they mean and mean only what they say are often vexed with having to compensate in some way for the disrespectful or disingenuous behaviors of those who've preceded them.

Take it to the bank that many of us are actually sincere in the specificity of our offers to get acquainted. It, admittedly and regrettably, might be a small some, but we do exist. πŸ˜‰ It helps a lot when women honestly respond or reciprocate in gestures of mutual interest. too.

Very well stated.

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No idea, never done it and never will. Its uncouth and vulgar

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Its as bad as religion being forced down your throat really...interestingly though, this post got way mor replies than 99% of most of the others out there.
Just sayin' 

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I don't know but I'll decide how Igeel about it when Iget one!

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The thing Iknow that is hard to understand about men and their dicks is the insecurity most of ue feel when we see them in porn pics. so as a way for someone that is insecure, some reasons are and in no particular order are: the guy is a self consious jerk and thinks his is the best you have ever seen. the guy is a self consiuos jerk and byt sending a pic he is looking for affirmation. why yes that is a good looking dick. and then the best slice you women can get in is to say Ithought they were bigger than that. some think it is their best part, (maybe with good reason), Iam 60 years old and while Ihave sent said pics, it was only after being asked, and Istill feel embaressed to admit it even now. Iguess what Iam saying is that to most of us it is the most useful tool we have in out toolkit. and yes it gets overused by idiots.all Ican say is sorry to being a dick, it is just who we men are at times. sorry lol

You never sent them unsolicited, so that makes you A-OK in my book.

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I don't know. It's weird. I believe I even don't want to know.

Gert Level 7 Mar 20, 2018
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This is the only Dick pic I ever send. It’s the classiest Dick pic I’ve ever seen.

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So they can't hear me laugh?

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Tricky...

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Some, not all.

That should go without saying. Anyone who thinks otherwise is an idiot.

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"Men notoriously misperceive women's sexual interest in them and project their own sexual interests and desires onto women,"....."One issue is that men just aren't good at hearing, or responding to "No.""
Yes! So much yes!!

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As a woman who has recieved them unsolicited, this is a GREAT question. My theories are thus:
The man fears rejection based on his face, therefore hopes you will be amazed by his average looking penis?
He is a sexual predator and is on the police sheet for said crime and cannot show his face?
Or he just thinks his junk is so AMAZING that everyone should admire it as much as he does???

So do you report them when given the option?

@kensmile4u of course. After I harass them...

@Corvislover Good for you. I hope it helps to clean up the dating pool πŸ˜‰

Yes, you mentioned some of the reasons listed in the Psychology Today article I posted in the OP. I've received dick pics as a means of attempting to show their dominance -- to try and intimidate me. While it's disgusting, I can't help but laugh because they resort to their second head --- apparently lacking enough intelligence to use their first head to counter a debate.

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Without being asked, Ihavnt got the slightest clue apart from being very shallow and assuming woman are just like men.

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The article implies Dick Pics are either a strategy to trigger a response or it's compulsive behavior. But if it's a strategy that women unanimously reject (as implied by the article) then one could assume the strategic group of men would stop eventually due to lack of response (or criticism). The remaining group of men would be compulsive which is not a safe situation. It is an interesting topic that in the interest of public safety should be studied at length (no pun intended). πŸ˜‰

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I saw another tread similar to this recently. I don't remember if it was here or somewhere else. The general consensus of the women who responded to the thread was to never send one unless asked, and always include at least the upper portion of the body. A pic of a dick is just that. No context. Boring. A dick is a dick is a dick. So now, thanks to those responses, I only send pics with my face included, and never without being specifically asked.

I have asked the recipients for their reaction to receiving a "dick pic" with the rest of the body and the response has been 100% positive.

Don't judge. We all have our little turn-ons. πŸ˜‰

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I have no idea and some are just right of the bat. I guess when they send them pretty early on it just gives me the opportunity to see what they're working with, and know whether they're worth my time. In most cases size does matter, so It's good to know. ?

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I can’t figure this out either! I did chat with woman who complained about it and then a couple of days later asked me for one! Mixed signals!

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Because they Assume you will be as excited as they are by this marvelous creature attached to them

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I've never done it i think it's stupid and i feel the same when a woman sends me nudes...gilthy whires jk, but seriously it's just stupid

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They consider genitals to be the most interesting part of a woman and so believe woman consider genitals the most interesting part of a man. They are wrong.

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Of course you're taling about unsolicited pics.
Then again, it is our favorite part and we just want to show it off.
Have you ever seen a woman right after she's gotten a boob-job?

Not entirely a fair comparison, given how often women have had men yell, β€œShow us yer tits!” Showing them off is typically a little less unsolicited. (Disclosure: I have never exposed mine anywhere except a bedroom)
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I have never understood this.

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I have no clue.

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I don't have Dick Pics, does the fact that I don't send them explain why I'm unattached (relationship wise not todger wise!) And anyway wouldn't they be aerial shots?

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Endowment is good to have but men just don't know how women think. This is true. Imagine a couple outdoors under the stars and they have just had sex. Smoking and looking at the sky one asks the other "are you thinking what I'm thinking?"
This situation is just impossible. It pisses me off that someone might even post it as a cartoon. There is no way they are thinking the same thing, just no way, period.

Maybe men should wonder why women do not send vagina pictures. I've never known one that did.

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