I'm bi and women fight over me. The men, not so much.

Dance! Be descreet. Use simple motions & do not throw your arms into the air or grab your partner. Be suave. I love the commercial with the trujeo guy. Tubby, cuddly, cute mowing the lawn while rock'in. Simple on the beat steps. Don't try & be Barishnikov or Michael Jackson.

True about dancing. I once saw an eldery gentleman haveing young women lining up to dance salsa with him. He was smooth and garcefull and women loved him.

I'm not much of a dancer but I think I agree with you on all 3 points. My ex loved my foot massages too. I think I might just run an ad saying I can do foot massages.

As a woman who tends to be a follower or a more submissive type I would definitely say yes to all these. However after reading the comments, I realize that not everyone has the same tastes.

I was really into ballroom and modern smooth but my gown seemed to put women off...

I do not dance, so #1 would do nothing to sway me. #3 is imperative (at least the respect part), and #2 would be fabulous!

My dancing is the drug-fueled tribal writhing mirroring to the catatonic state reached by the Yanomaman shaman in the throes of hallucinogenic plant dust blown into his nostril through a 5' long hollow reed.

I'll lick a women's feet if she puts them near my mouth and asks, but that's about it.

And I get laid all the damn time, so go figure.

You know, I saw two women on the sidewalk just the other day, shoving each other out of the way for the honour of walking on the outside, and I didn't even know I was witnessing an epic power struggle until now. Thank you for helping me understand.

if i ever dance the jitterbug, the building would collaspe

I believe technology has provided us with excellent foot spas

and as for chillavary, a lot of women object being treated differently from men, soooooo.....

yea the dancing thing is a good point.... i'm not much of a dancer and don't have women lining up....but did lose out on a couple women because i don't know which way to move my ass in relation to my elbows. have contemplated dance lessons....although i do know how to novicely 2 step.

Funny you shoudl post this, I was going to spell out these same suggestions for some of the younger guys who have asked. My son does all 3, but he gets asked no weddings monthly as someones "Plus 1" because he can dance and he also meets a lot of girls at dancing lessons.
I can't dance, hate dancing, and the thought of giving a foot massage leaves me cold. Guess that explains me being single.

#2 extremely important. Thanks for the share.

I think you might have some answers

I am sunk.

I am happy to massage (womens) feet.

I try my hardest to be respectful (hey, I am human and don't always succeed).

I don't dance. It's my one real phobia that I probably won't get passed (long story, shallow, but real, reasons). I have NO women lining up at my doorstep.

Based on this, I think the dancing is the only really important skill, and that means I am sunk.

The dancing thing is 1000% TRUE!