Thoughtfulness and sweetness... It's the little things that that say 1) you're on my mind and 2) I get you.

Phermones

Integrity, I like someone who has principles and stands up for them. My wife has gotten in trouble many times when she felt management or customers were treating her more submissive, young or impressionable coworkers unfairly.

Thoughtfulness ?

See me as I really am, still be interested and supportive...
Never had that before...
I only hope I reciprocate close to as fairly to him.

Cook a great meal

Can't explain it. They just "get" me and it feels like they have my back, and vice-versa on both those counts.

Intelligence, adventurousness and kindness are key but I have to be honest and admit that physical beauty is the first stepping stone for me, I'm shallow that way but at least I am honest about it.

I've a hideous crush on someone like this ^^^right now. Circumstances are preventing it from escalating unfortunately(attached, not married or engaged). His kindness, ability to express nuances and be honest put me on the ceiling. Wish I had the gift of being able to cover every nook and cranny in matters the way he does.
Oh well... I hate poachers and refuse to be one. Our personal fan club remains intact however.

Being considerate

Loyalty,Respect, Honestly.

Good conversation and laughter. I have to laugh.