I forgave a lot over 28 years. As things got worse it became harder to forgive. As real legal threats threatened me and my livelihood I had to pull the plug.. Love and attraction are not enough if you are not headed the same way. Its not about being the bigger person, its about being honest that you want something different. That does not make them wrong, or bad, just not what you really want. And you deserve a chance to be the best YOU that you can be.

Hmmm. You say you have love and attraction and there is no physical or emotional abuse in your current relationship. What is it that you need to escape from and run toward? I guess for me the first question I would have to answer before making my escape is what is it that is missing from the current relationship that is essential? I would write those things down and give them a complete once over. Are these qualities really missing from your current relationship or can they be developed? All too often I have ended relationships for reasons that really had nothing to do with the current connection but more to do with my fears or misunderstands. Staying connected is hard. Finding new connections can be even harder.

Maybe I need more info, so far I can't see the downside.

Love never been bad for me.

How is it broken or bad for you if there is plenty of love and attraction? You mean you want "deeper" love? You ever see the meme of the woman that is just a skeleton and the caption says, "Waiting for the right man"? It's different if you just don't feel it. If that's the case then break up and do both of you a favor by not wasting her and your time.

Walk away. Be honest, but walk away.

No future but no abuse. Plenty of love and attraction? Don't get it sorry. No future? Why?

"Love and attraction." That sounds like plenty to me.

Do you mean sex and attraction?

If there is love and attraction, why then is there no future?

Sounds like you have already made the determination that you need to leave, now comes the hard part of ending the relationship. How? You have the difficult conversation and deal with the emotional fallout it will create. I went through this recently and ended a relationship with someone who I cared for (and still do), but who was going nowhere. Although there was a great deal of physical attraction and our personalities meshed well, we both brought a lot of baggage into the relationship (emotional and otherwise). She was a financial and emotional drain and I finally had to end things. It sucked, but it needed to happen. I hope this helps.