Name one thing you want to try in the bedroom.
Before I started current job I had some time off between jobs, so I did some painting. I had always wanted to try an ombre wall, and I wanted a bedroom strictly in my taste, my fantasy, my sanctuary. I love the ombre wall, and I made the quilt as well. My bedroom makes me happy. I haven't had any visitors since the painting was done.
A comfortable bed.
My mattress molded in storage, and I couldn't afford another one. So, a friend loaned me a twin mattress. Comfortable, but it molded too. I think one of her dogs had an accident on it before they brought it over, and none of us caught that.
Hanging my nautical light.. I could put it on a timer, but would really like a switch near the bed. Had it in a prior bedroom … it was haunting. I love the ocean, so couldn’t help purchasing it decades ago, it’s the real thing - red on one side, blue-green on the other.. Otherworldly, and so cool in a bedroom ~
I love to start with long deep whole body messages. I was trained in structural integration, working on the engineering of the human body. It is the type of body work that makes one feel great the next day, as tight connective tissues and fascia will only cause chronic pain. Rolfing is a form of Structural Integration, but it is branded, and they do in 1 session what I'll do more gently in 5. Working on someone, I learn all about them, where they hold their stress and tension.
It's really not technically message, since I don't work with muscles, but I do add some because it flushes the lymphatic system and just plain feels good.
And, it's always a great bonding experience. I always want to try doing it better.
What I want to try is to bring my partner to greater pleasures and feeling better than ever in their life.