Not since I retired the military but a living in partner changes all that.

I have to, because I'm so scatterbrained and live inside my head so much, that I need structure to keep me grounded.

I assume I have to, if no other reason than I am a high school science teacher. I live by bells and schedules. It used drive my ex- nuts and I can't say I blame her. She liked unplanned spontaneity (sorry, redundant) and my structured lifestyle contrasted with that. I am a softer style of Type-A personality. If I am not at my appointment 5 min. early, Im already late (for example).

Nope... you can pick up and leave anytime you want if your rich and famous like me..... yeah right?. Or you can be structured and plan everything down to the last detail.

What do you mean by "a structured life"? Sticking to an organized schedule or routine? Living by others' rules? Not being too spontaneous?

I live cautiously, even conservatively in a lot of ways, but I'm far from being conformist in my behavior, e.g.:

• non-theistic (negative atheist)
• vegetarian (sometimes fully plant-based diet)
• anti-natalist
• uncoupled & sexually abstinent for many years
• almost never drink alcohol, and never to excess
• have been known to drive 57 in a 55 mph zone

As a single, 80 year old retiree, living alone, definitely not.

No one told me to. Not that it would matter if they did...

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Nope!