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I rarely post anything in the Love category, so I figured perhaps it was about time.

Rather than making a post about longing or the last, trainwreck of a relationship I have experienced, instead, I have something positive to share.

I am actually in a relationship with a loverly person. Many friends around here probably have had no idea I was even in a relationship. I know for a fact, other than the person I am involved with, only one friend here knows of this. It isn't a secret. It is simply that I am Extremely Private.

Despite all of that, I felt it was time to share my good fortune. smile001.gif

This is my love, Tiv, saving lives again, tonight, as he does Most nights. smile015.gif

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Thank you so much for all the positive comments. I was actually expecting a lot more vile and snarky posts, but you guys have proven me wrong. Thank you! And @sadoi is the best!

tivesz Level 5 July 3, 2018

I told you they would be Encouraging. I'm rather social at this site and the people are quite incredible and supportive 99% of the time, love.


@Need2FeelU Sounds like my Family! No Wonder I felt so comfortable! hahaha!


Awesome and congrats!

Thank ya Kindly Mz. Birdie! smile009.gif


Fantastic! Thanks for sharing!

PenLOP Level 7 July 3, 2018

Aww why thank you! I am glad to have received such a warm response with this posting. smile001.gif

So Much Love!


What a sweet and loving post.

Aww thank you so much! What a beautiful name you have! So Very French!! (I am half, French, and was even born in Paris)

I enjoyed your gracious words. smile001.gif


Congratulations you are now one of the wealthiest people on the planet I wish you and yours all the best in your future

Words of Wisdom! I would have to say, possibly the wisest thus far.

Fortunately I am not a materialistic person and I Do consider the intangible things in life to contain the Most Value of all.

So kind! Thank you from the bottom of my heart. smile001.gif



Charlene Level 9 July 3, 2018

Thank you sis smile015.gif

@Sadoi he is yummy!??????

@Charlene Is he now? hee hee hee! i think so too... oddly. Normally im not phyiscally attracted to the people I date. Something must be going on around here... haha

@Sadoi could be the....umm..heat?!

@Charlene the heat!!!!! BWAAAHAHAHAHAAH


Wonderful, and thank you for sharing your happiness.

poetdi56 Level 7 July 3, 2018

Why thank you! I have been pleasantly surprised by the response this post has received. I am even more thrilled that it has all be so beautiful and positive.

At so many other sites, you just feel like you are one person lost in a sea of people, part of the Crowd. However, at a site like this one, you feel more like you are a part of a Family than you are a cog in a giant machine. It is... so much more... sublime.

@Sadoi so true!!! As I met the man of my dreams on this site, I hope we all find happiness!!

@poetdi56 REALLY?!!! AWESOME!!!!!!!! How long ago did you meet? I always wonder about couples who have met here at!

@Sadoi Stay tuned! We met via a random but serendipitous comment on June 1. We'll meet in person in a few weeks (current enjoying the LDR part of getting to know each other LOL). smile001.gif


How wonderful for you both!

UUNJ Level 8 July 3, 2018

Why thank you so much! I am pleased as punch! Time to test out these waters a little better and see what lies up ahead. smile009.gif

Life IS an adventure! At least, I tend to think so.


Best wishes to both of you smile001.gif

Prashant Level 5 July 3, 2018

Thank you for the well wishes Prashant! I have absolutely loved all of the kindness this posting has been met with. It is almost overwhelming, the outpouring of support. smile001.gif


Excellent, best wishes for you both.

Coldo Level 8 July 3, 2018

Coming from a Classy Gent like yourself, Caldo, I am honoured by your well wishes and gestures of kindness.

I really mean that too. Im not being a crass ass or anything! hahahah!!! You're a generally Cool-Cat so... I know one when I see one! smile009.gif



Amisja Level 8 July 3, 2018

Aww so sweet of you!! Makes the internet seem less sterile when there is such an abundance of love and understanding I have come to find.

Thank you so much! smile009.gif



And she said "yes". smile001.gif
September, possibly the first marriage smile001.gif

tivesz Level 5 July 23, 2018

Aww baby... this post is so old, don't take it the wrong way if no one notices your comment. hee hee its okay. I doubt anyone is going to see it, but we both know so thats all that truly matters, my love. xoxoxoxoxoxox

@Sadoi well I just saw it. That's very cool. I just joined last month. I love it here so far. How long did you all do the private msg, text or video chat before meeting?


a cutie - enjoy one another !

evergreen Level 8 July 3, 2018

Aww why thank you. Yes, I am not one who is moved by physical traits, but.. he isnt too bad on the eyes. smile009.gif



My wife is very much like you -- "private" or "withheld" and I suspect I was a total surprise to most of her friends when I eventually "surfaced". Give Tiv the space to be a bit more open if that's his thing and all will be well.

mordant Level 8 July 3, 2018

Yes, I let him decide, but he tend to follow my lead in this realm of life since he knows how much more important privacy is to me than going public is to him, if you know what i mean? Hence, he was more so indifferent, overall.

However, he was rather Pleased to find I went public. hahah

@Sadoi Yeah that sounds real familiar to me. I have become less public out of respect for and deference to my wife's needs and preferences, since I'm fairly indifferent about it personally.


Good looking guy! That's a sweet post. smile027.gif

zeuser Level 8 July 3, 2018

Aww a few of these really Did touch me. Your comment was one of them. Very lovely and kind words you shared. I appreciate it greatly. smile009.gif


Nice to hear that you seem to be as happy as me. My lovely girlfriend (not totally official fiancee) is in my profile photo here. She's also a life-saver, working as she does as an EMT on ambulances in Dublin! Totally loved up! smile009.gif

Pete66 Level 6 July 3, 2018

She is a Beauty! I am Also in medicine. I, too, am a Nurse working toward my Doc in Obstetrics.

@Sadoi I know! And well done a worthwhile career!


"Extremely private". LOL

Secretguy Level 7 July 3, 2018

Wh yes, Sir Secret, I Am "Extremely Private!" hahaha


I wish you well in life's journey and success in finding what you are searching for here and in your life.

jlynn37 Level 8 July 3, 2018

What wonderously gorgeous words to "say!" It was so very well written and quite inspirational. I deeply appreciate your heartfelt sentiments. smile001.gif

@Sadoi Thank you and you are very welcome my dear.


Continued happiness.

kltuckmn Level 7 July 3, 2018

Aww simple and yet timeless! Why thank you for the lovely sentiment. smile001.gif


Affairs of the heart do not belong in public life. It is that quiet time of joy and bliss... and we understanding what love really is knew the time you are in... keep enjoying it with your witness to your life. But keep that music coming.

Well said.

Bingo Bango my brother!! You have been with me from Day One in this juke joint, sir!! You are my Wing maaan!! hahaha!! Or... maybe its more like... I am your Wiiing woomaaan! hahaha!

You Know you are one of a handful around here whose words mean a great deal to me, therefore your wishes are always received with great joy, my friend.

All my love and i SHALL KEEP THE BEATS A ROOOOLLIN!!!! Don't ever doubt me on that one, brothaaaa!! hahaha!

@Sadoi Blushing and I don't do easily. Party On.

@GipsyOfNewSpain eh brotha, heres a song for you Right here and Now! i think you shall appreciate...

@Sadoi Blasting it and dancing with the chihuahuas!!!!

@GipsyOfNewSpain WITH THE CHIHUAHUAS??!!! I WANT PICTUUUUURES! I LOOOVE CHIHUAHUA'S! as a joke, i call them "Cha-hoo-uh-hoo-uh" hahaha! I know the real name but... the alternative is muuch funnier... to me... haha

@GipsyOfNewSpain I knoooow you are partying on with the chihuahua's and you Need a party channel for them! haha

@GipsyOfNewSpain You know i can IMAGINE YOU with your BIIIIG Afro... just... groooving to Earth, Wind and Fire... on the disco checkered dance flooor... wearing your best polyester blend suit and some daper ass hat and shoes! Were you a "chain on the neck" guy or not?

@Sadoi Never been into jewels. In a fight you get grab by the chain. I am a humble guy but I will use my scholarship money while in college to buy expensive drapes... like Givenchy, Pierre Cardin, Yves St Laurent... We were all a crew all the same height and we all buy those suits and swap them around among us. We were the best dressed guys in the club... either broke or with our pockets full.... Doesn't matter if last century or this century. We dressed up for the ladies.

@GipsyOfNewSpain Brotha, that is because you are a Dapper Gent, ma dear!!!! smile009.gif Suave!


That is a positive post. Thank you for that. I can relate to being private.

Hello and Allow me to "Call You Dave." hee hee!

Thank you so much for the upbeat words and I always like to know I am not alone in my love of privacy. Sometimes I think it is mistaken for secretive when that isn't it at all. I simply have no desire to become a part of someones odd gossip and... what I do behind my closed doors is... my biz-ness! hahaha! I mean, if someone asked, I would answer, but... i go by the rule, if you don't ask, I won't tell. lol



wdwyer Level 5 July 3, 2018

Thank you so much! I appreciate all the well wishes. smile001.gif


I wish you all the best!
Isn't it great to find a new love when you least expect it?

Indeed it is!! I certainly expected it to the degree of "least" that it was practically an impossibility! hahaha!! I am just... a busy person, for the most part, and I have come to like my singleton life.

When I was a kid I could never fathom how my Mother was happy being single. Well... I finally get it! haha! There is Also Peace in having finally had a few years single.

I suppose this was the season of love for me. lol


Congratulations to you both. I hope it goes well.

(He's very handsome!)

Aww thank you! Everytime i see your photo I think, "Aww it is the adorable pixie gal!" Its funny how my brain latches on to some people because they have such a distinctive look and then it kinda... nicknames them... hee heee

What a sweet thing to say as well! I hope so too! Crosses Fingers


He looks like a great guy!

He is actually a pretty decent fellow. smile009.gif I must say... i do tend to have good taste. hahahaha!!!!! smile002.gif

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