What's a memory from childhood that proved to be erroneous when re-examined from an adult perspective? In my case, I always thought the house I grew up in was huge. Just recently, however, I had occasion to see it again . . . And it was nowhere near as big as I remembered.
I used to think my mom hit me and my sister a lot. Now she assures me that she never ever hit either one of us. Since my sister has the same memory, I guess we were both delusional children.
@RobLawrence My sister and I have had a laugh about this on several occasions. Of course she hit us.
@RobLawrence My sister and I have had a laugh about this on several occasions. Of course she hit us.
Also, anyone notice how many of the comments so far have been about relative perceptions of size? Doesn't really surprise me, but I find it interesting.
My used to attend a specific congregation before it merged with another one to form an even bigger one and moved to a new building. The front of the building for the smaller congregation had a grassy hill that I used to roll down much to my parents' annoyance, since I was always still wearing my nice "church clothes", and I thought it was toy huge. Turns out is was like all of 5 feet from the top to the bottom. But then again, when you're only 3 years old, and small for your age, 5 feet is pretty big :
My elementary school. I thought the windows in the hallway were way up high; unreachable. Returned as grown. Nope. They're regular height. I stood in the hallway for a long time just staring, touching the window sill, and thinking, "I could have sworn they were higher than this." Smh.
Not me, but my kid used to think that in the old days the world actually existed in black and white, like in the photographs.
@RobLawrence I posted that on Facebook and was surprised that other people had the same experience.
The steps to our front porch shrank from when I was a small child.
The hill in front of my grandparents' house was a lot less steep than when I was five.
I thought Mr. Green Jeans was hot.
Also, that since I was told I could grow up to be anything, I could grow up to be one of Santa's Reindeer. Seriously, I threw a tantrum about this.
Growing up I did not realize how dirt poor we were and how much our parents sacrificed for us.
Years. One year seemed to take forever to reach it's conclusion. As an adult I find one year is over in a blink of an eyelid.
As a kid, I used to think that a car with its hazards flashing was about to split in half and turn both left and right..
My dad always seemed perfect to me. When I got older I found out he screwed around on my mother. Never completely trusted men again.
I grew up thinking mom loved me but, as an adult, it became apparent that I was a mere friend for her. To this day I don’t like women.
@rainmanjr that's just sad
I thought my daddy was so handsome with his greased straight back from his forehead black hair, his strong body, and his cigarette pack folded up in his t shirt sleeve. Oh ya, and he smelled so good with his old spice. He was a womanizer, cheated on my mother, and smoked 4 packs of Camels with no filter per day. He used drugs and was supporting young women with their additions with their drug of choice. He sent my older brother to college, but when it was my turn, he said that there was no money for me and that I needed to marry, because girls don't go to college. The shock of that day's reality and rejection hit hard. I turned to letting men fall in love and then dumping them, wearing black, and hitch hiked to San Fran ( 1972)
@Plant1010J Taking trust away, turns everything muddy.
@RobLawrence not all men...a few have been.
Crust is healthier
@RobLawrence the crust is the healthiest part of the bread
I thought that, too!
@Minta79 it's all the same dough!
@weelittleone I was literally in my second year of culinary school before realizing bread crust is not equal to fruit/veggie peels in terms of nutrition.
@Minta79 that's so funny. I was an adult as well. Just to be an asshole, I told my kids to eat the crust cause it's healthier.
I never knew that my parents didn't have a lot of money. We were always dressed nicely and got to order clothes and shoes out of the Sears catalog right before school started. We would circle the things we wanted and then have to wait for a few months to get the items (we lived in a remote area of Turkey on a military base). We never got everything, but my dad told us it got lost in the mail coming over...we never seemed to mind and believed his story... having something new to wear on the first day of school was always special. I never felt poor or deprived ever.