And how you treat the waiter.
That is the great definer I see in others.
This does define me, however, so does my sense of justice and my sense of humour. But the biggest definer is my sense of wonder I feel towards the world and the universe.
I would say this is true for me. I’ve been up and I’ve been down, and I like being up much better!
I think that is true for most of us.
My need to understand and patience. Might sound nice, but I've managed to weaponize both! ?
Constantly working on the 'patience' part. As one ages, different things push our buttons, at least in my experience. Things that used to make me crazy, I can now live with; other things that never bothered me previously, now get on my nerves. More work to do.