I have had three different men pm me on POF the past two weeks. We've set up coffee dates, and each one has either 1) canceled or 2) never got back to me after THEY suggested the meeting. I've come to the conclusion that it is far easier for men to get dates than women. I tend to be very picky, and won't just meet anyone, but I feel that men have "pick of the litter" because of all us single gals. No point to make here, just an observation.