Why do guys feel the need to tell me they are shorter than me before we meet in person? They always say something like, "It doesn't bother me but I thought you should know." I can see their height on their profile. If I worried about that, I'd never date.
At least they're telling you! LOL I've found so many men lie about their height... do they think I won't notice when I meet them in person? A 5'1 woman may not readily see the difference between 5'9 and 6', but a taller woman sure will when we look at you eye to eye lol I admit I do prefer a man taller than me because I want to "fit" physically with my partner. Everyone has preferences... doesn't mean they're carved in stone.
They have a height complex ! There was a guy on here when I first joined who continually went on about his height and how all women were gold diggers (another complex). He seems have disappeared!
Glad I missed that one! LOL
@LunaGreenwitch Yes he posted a LOT and they were just repetitive rants....and he was supposed to be looking for a partner!
@pepperjones Your guess is as good as mine....maybe he was removed!
I've seen many female online dating profiles that say to men. "If you're not 6ft don't bother."
Or "I'm 5ft 7in. I like to ware 3in heels, so if you're not at least 6ft this will not work".
And, "SHRIMPS! (Men under 6ft) Don't waste my time."
This has been literally what women have said in there profiles to men.
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Because most women won't date men shorter than they are. I sure wouldn't.
Why not?
Goodness, how sad!
@Remi Eew. I'm only 5' 3" !
What's the point?
If the guy I'm with can't protect me and will be pushed around, beat up, and disrespected by other men, he's not much use.
I prefer to be single anyway and if the guy doesn't seriously enhance my life, then it's not worth the bother. I also won't date jerks who think women should pay half. Who needs them?
I never understood that either...I guess they have had bad experiences with women wanting taller men...I normally wear high heels, so there is a good chance I will be taller than a lot of guys...horizontally, things even out, right? ha
@Iam4MY Actually that can be a real problem, if you want to kiss at the same time. 5'5" with 6'6" makes that pretty difficult.
@OlderMusicGeek You just have to take turns at kissing or other activity.
@Iam4MY They didn't make it by kissing!
@Iam4MY Congrats to your family for the new addition!