Finding love on Agnostic, update. So I get it. I don't think people end up on this site without a healthy sense of skepticism. I've not updated or posted (bragged?) about finding love because I wanted to let things with #KelKat and I...simmer. But here's the deal, the deal is real. We're getting married in October and she's moving here. I know. It's sudden, we don't know each other that well, blah, blah, blah. I was with my ex for four years before we got married and I had more concerns about that than what we're about to do. So I know the naysayers will say their nays and that's cool but from my perspective, off is the direction in which they can fuck.