eharmony might work if you live somewhere with a dense population. I don't so it doesn't work for me. I also have to expand my search radius to 100 miles. And long term, long distance dating is very challenging.

I've used about every dating site available some membership,others free,same results,most compatible women were several hours away. two sites had lengthy questions E harmony had 1234 questions and another one had a thousand or more,some worded differently. So out a few $$$$ and the same results,however,get involved in posting comments,share opinions,(maybe a few wars break out),but get your name out there,possible the one you seek is a member here, waiting for you to peak her interest in you?................

Originally a Christian dating site, e-harmony was sued in 2005 for discriminating against gays.

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E-harmony was the first dating site I tried. Hated the required multiple-choice questionnaires. The answer choices didn't fit me. The process was stilted, controlled and ridiculous.

I had to fill out questionnaires and send them back-and-forth with a man 4-5 times before we could exchange phone numbers.

Nope, haven’t tried using eharmony