For the women :
Has a man every asked you out on a date and when you said no, he reacted in a negative or nasty manner? Was there name calling? What names did he call you?
For the men :
I know all men don't do this, but I'd like your input on this topic... Did you ever call a women a nasty name because you felt rejected?
I'm usually clueless when a man asks me for a date because they are usually friends and going for coffee or going to a club to me means hanging out as friends. But, usually I would be too busy anyway, and they think I rejected them when I didn't even know they were asking me out. They are usually good at not taking it too personally.
Total strangers who asked me out had been pretty good at taking rejection. I usually try to politely say no. But I've had men or groups of men wanting me to get into their vehicles while I walk down the street. I don't do THAT kind of dates.
Never done it, because I get around being rejected by just never asking them out. I beat the system.
The relationships that I've been in have all begun because the woman showed interest, clear interest, first. I figure if she's interested she'll let me know. Is that wrong?
Their reaction to rejection is a revelation to their intentions. You have a right to say no and they have only a right to accept your answer. Any more words out of their mouth besides a polite exit is manipulative. “Can we still be friends?” “How about a coffee then?”
It’s a trap.
Hell no. I've always prided myself on being a gentleman, even in the face of rejection. And I know a thing or two about rejection, lol. Just because someone didn't have the same idea about a relationship as I did is no reason to fault them or take it out on them.
If men are nasty to you on this forum, you can go to their profiles and block them. If a man becomes abusive or hostile to you in a bar, call the bouncer.
If he becomes abusive in the street, call the police, etc.
NEVER trivialize dangerous male behavior.. take steps to stay safe.
And from a mans point of view....yes I have been harassed many times from woman who were really niceish but when you tell them that you want to not meet again you are subject to a lot of abuse about how bad you are whether you have slept with them or not....
No I don't call women names if they turn me down for a date. I wanted to date this girl once and she said I would be the last one she would date, I said damn that hurt. The weird thing is she keep asking me after that to go places with her just to hang out. I always made some excuse not to go, but never feel like calling her some name.
Yes it’s really hard to let someone know that you are not interested in them , I have been called all sorts of wonderful names, ya fucken lesbian, seems to be a favourite but generally speaking most guys are quite mature about it. The older they are, the nicer.