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In need of friends. I find it hard to make friends. I'm part of the problem, this I know. I wish we (free thinkers) had a day and place we could meet, like church. The church community is the one quality they get right. I live out in the country, away from a populous that has a weekly meeting. But I have 5 or more churches within 15 miles of my house. I don't do the online like I did when www was new. Any suggestions?

Al-Bundy_59 6 Sep 18
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Most decent groups contain fewer religious folks than you might think. Any other interests? I once lived in the woods, or rural, but would trek into various towns to join groups interested in all kinds of stuff. From Geology to Land Use, orchards to politics.

I can ‘turn if off or on,’ so generally set back, observe, learn, then decide how involved I may care to get.. Seems every groups got it’s (F’n) dynamo organizer though … and too many do that “lets everybody introduce themselves and tell a little about yourself” game. ..not trying to turn you off … just let you know there’s crap about most gatherings that some of us can’t, or can hardly stand. Lately, it’s been these damn ‘potlucks.’ F - I’m a newly minted bachelor who’s already lost any ability or desire he’s ever had to cook a dish…

We even had Atheist group meetings back in Portland Oregon! Other than them being devoid of females (fine for me, not for my brother) - they were casual and cutting edge. ..so find something to attend, if only once. Your choice; just be yourself, and see what feels worthwhile. But avoid those churches 😉

Varn Level 8 Sep 18, 2018
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[meetup.com] - this is how I found my local freethinkers group.

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Being on here is a start, who knows who's nearby. Get involved and see where it goes 🙂

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Search for a community group but I would avoid anything church. Community Centers can often be used for all types of meeting. Fellowship is wonderful unless someone starts talking about their invisible friend.

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Any community groups within driving distance? You can find them online or on local library bulletin boards. There are groups for many interests..canoeing, hiking, bird watching, jamming on acoustic instruments, reading, etc where you can make friends.

Or check online for local meet ups. It might be worthwhile driving to one of them; since there are many meet up group interests; you might even find one for atheists.

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I’m active in my Unitarian Universalist congregation, and I moderate a UU group here. Atheists and freethinkers welcome! There is a UU Church of the Larger Fellowship that is a virtual community if you want progressive worship without an expectation of theism. www.clfuu.org

UUNJ Level 8 Sep 18, 2018

right on, no dogma or something to believe with UUs all are welcome.

That sounds great except for that word "worship." I am not actively worshiping anything and not really looking to start.

@DenoPenno We use it to describe a Sunday gathering with common rituals—hymns, readings, meditations, sermon. There is no deity worship, at least from the pulpit. Individuals are free to believe in God or gods or...

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