What habits/behaviours that humans exhibit in public that irritates you? How do you deal with it? On my side-there are so many but I want to share with you--there's this guy in the Sauna--I meet him there almost everyday even when I go to different times--he is black like me--so race is not an issue here-- he keeps on breathing in and out through his mouth--as he produces this sound as if he is running our having silent sex. The other guy--white,as soon as I enter the sauna--he start jerking off in the open--in a room too small to accommodate 10 people. What's wrong with people? This is hitting me deeper on the bones. I just don't know what to do..
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.There are many things that polite society deems to be "private" activities or actions, so doing those in public can be shocking, but definitely rude! Many of these things are learned restraints, but not everyone is taught that some things are private. The illegal activities, yes, but I guess not everyone's mother taught them to not, oh, let's see, pick your nose, scratch your privates, masturbate, repeatedly snort snot (versus using a tissue to deal with the problem), and so on. I am further convinced that many people who are offensive (or even simply annoying) have no clue that they are bothering others. I try to refrain from "mothering", but have tried to politely suggest that someone cease an annoying or rude behavior by offering a solution...
Rustee
Level 7
Feb 24, 2019
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yeah that jerking off in full sight seems to get me everytime no matter the size of the room. THat reminds me of the time I was walking in the woods with my great dane. SHe was a great guardian-did it with humor. I looked up the stream I was crossing and there was a guy there doing that a little up the way. It surprised him when I ran up there with my dog and she let him know my opinion.
I don't like it when someone doesnt blow their nose when they need to and just snort
btroje
Level 9
Jan 29, 2018
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Blowing the nose, and then use bare hands wiping it off goes on my nerves too.
People talking on the phone while ordering food in the drive-thru or when they are at the front counter.
Sarahroo29
Level 8
Jan 29, 2018
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This must be rough.
In the middle of a rush it is. We are timed in the drive-thru. If we have a line of people wanting to order in drive or front, and you're on the phone, we do get upset.
What the hell? Yah a guy beating off in front of you in the sauna is beyond irritating, it's illegal. I have to admit it took me off guard. The story was presented as a look into little things people do that are annoying, and then bam, it's about someone masturbating in front of people.
Rudy1962
Level 9
Jan 29, 2018
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Haha yah had the same I was working at Walmart at the time and it was around 7am so I hit the bathroom before work and I herd this lady having phone sex in the stall- wtf! Why? Needless to say I got the hell out of there lol and people of Walmart.com is no joke-
Affinityshadow
Level 5
Jan 29, 2018
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Are you serious?
@0752532706 sadly its true my ex who worked in the meat department and i would swap the horrors we saw each day kinda like thearpy- im in a sand box that gets to 127 in the shade so yah there are lots of people in shorts and bathing suits that should never leave the house- theres not enough hours in the day to tell you all the stories lol
@Affinityshadow How did we get to that point as people?
That's bizarre... I've been hitting the schvitz for decades, never saw anyone rubbing one out at 185 degrees. Frequently see people do their breathing routines.
My own public pet peeve is people moving while on their phone.
andygee
Level 7
Jan 29, 2018
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This affects me when someone is ahead of me and effects my ability to move faster.
Is this for real ? I assume then, this sauna is in a gym, or some public place ? For the guy doing the heavy breathing - I'd ask him why he's breathing that way - if you know it may not bother you so much.
As for Mr. Jerk-off, I'd go to the manager and tell him or her what's going on. That's not cool.
evergreen
Level 8
Jan 29, 2018
1
Yes my friend, it's real.
@0752532706 Then it's time for you to speak up !
@0752532706 That shouldn't make any difference. You have the same rights as anyone else using the facility.
@0752532706 Lately, living in the US feels the same for many of it's citizens !
Try a different establishment.
jlynn37
Level 8
Jan 29, 2018
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