Very brave share...examining one's behavior for the sake of improving or making the lives of others better is very selfless...

I know I have used humor to deflect from the many sexual harassment comments and actions I faced when I probably could have used other means...throwing back what you get is not always the right thing to do...I have physically punched people for assaulting me first...

I am now very hypersensitive to not "flirting" even casually at work because I know my co-workers aren't sure how to respond or if they will be slapped down for it...seems everyone is a lot more somber now due to awareness.

Just keep it out of the workplace...too many things can go wrong.

Since these days saying hello to a woman seems to mean harassment....yes.

Anyone who's ever watched the TV show The Office has probably heard someone at a workplace throw in the tagline from the show onto something else spoken innocently. The line was "That's what she said..."

I would never want to run for public office or be a celebrity. There are things that at the time were considered pranks or fooling around that are now coming back to haunt people, which I was just as guilty of. Can’t change the past in anyway. We can only try to be better in the now and future.

Funny question...grabbed a co workers dick after he touched my shoulder. does that count?

Yea who wants to say that?

[I hope it’s ok to say] Never. So I ended up being ‘the guy’ ‘the girls’ could trust … then how could I let them down ..even if I could? I was brought up to be a good boy, something I still find difficult to shake. Don’t know if it’s done me an ounce of good, but it’s done no harm.

Yes, when I was young and foolish. Typical crowded bar scene, squeezing through the crowd if you get the drift. She made a comment I couldn't hear, but she should have punched me in the mouth. The problem being, if she did that, she has couldn't know if I might react violently to that, which really just shows how wrong I was to do that.

I pinched someone's butt as they walked by ... but he dared me...and he liked it !

I was born, does that count? ?

No, but on my first job I worked with a few women who did that to me, and some of them received warnings. Additionally, I had also worked with quite a few fellow men who got in trouble for saying certain things to female workers. I've never been able to figure out why some people choose to discuss personal issues/topics while on the job.

In a meeting a female coworker started the question "How hard Tom", she then paused probably thinking of the phrasing for the rest of the sentence. I answered "Tom very hard when he need to be"