Men that can cook,will draw female interest,if he can prepare a simple but tasteful meal like prime rib,a juicy steak,or Salmon with dill butter,has scored without too much effort. Side dishes of steamed potato's,fresh winter vegetables,or some sherbert in dessert cups,are appreciated.

A book on chivalry? I am sure you mean the modern conception and not the reality of chivalry as first conceived in the 1300's, etc.

Watch some damn romance movies to learn how to act properly. Too many explosions & blood & guts tend to make us look elsewhere for a mate.

Talking about a book read or an adventure traveler, perhaps a gourmet recipe saught and created.

Is it fencing? Touche'

I just assume that a woman will simply and clearly communicate with me as to what she wants to do outside the bedroom. Am I wrong to assume this, and need a book to tell me?