2018 is ending soon, have you found love here?
No, but I had a man offer me "instant love" and I ran in the other direction.  (Guess I am not as hard up as I thought.)
My first suspicion was that he was a scammer and i.told him that.  (Who proposes a life together before we have met in person?  His assessment of our compatibility was apparently based on my posts, comments, and profile, not any actual conversation with me ). He was highly insulted and after some messaging back and forth, told me I was someone who couldn't appreciate a "real man.".  I don't know if I do or don't appreciate a real man, but I recognize crazy and wasn't interested in getting involved in it.
Did you find love?
 citronella
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Dec 31, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    citronella
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Dec 31, 2018                                            
                                        I have not, but I'd be very surprised if it happened. Actually, although I don't entirely rule out the possibility, I haven't been pursuing the idea with any seriousness. I have virtually met some nice people, though, and even recognized a couple of real life friends who have joined the site. Not at all unhappy with my experience.
 Deb57
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Dec 29, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    Deb57
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Dec 29, 2018                                            
                                        Nope. There are no men in my age group who live near me. With 3/4 of American men overweight or obese, my chances get slimmer (har) every day.
Not attracted to fat.
I want a man who also enjoys a healthy lifestyle.
 LiterateHiker
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Dec 29, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    LiterateHiker
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Dec 29, 2018                                            
                                        Maybe there is a fat guy out there who would like to be able to hike and attempt to keep up with you. After some time he would loose weight and may become attractive. First a friend is needed and then if something else happens then it is more than expected. I am not offering anything, but I am on the heavy side and in the situation I am in it is hard to loose weight and get enough exercise. Wish things were different but then Kate would have to be well and we would do it together. Perhaps your chance lays by thinking out of the box. Perhaps I am full of it who knows what will happen in the future.
I thought I had, but was very mistaken. Was quite traumatized, actually. It gave me a big wake up call, and I am no longer actively "looking."
 GinaKay
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Dec 28, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    GinaKay
                                                
                                                Level 7
                                                Dec 28, 2018                                            
                                        Oh sorry to hear that.
@Kattywampus69 Thank you, I know you're right. Still just a little raw. And congrats to you! That's the best way, when you don't expect it!
A total Bleak dud onThe Dating front. I still like it here, but I've given up on dating.
 Kojaksmom
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Dec 28, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    Kojaksmom
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Dec 28, 2018                                            
                                        @maturin1919 yeah that's it
No and I haven't even met anyone in person yet. This site will need to grow a lot more in numbers of women my age in my area before it will be a realistic option for finding someone to date without doing a LD relationship, which I refuse to attempt.
 TomMcGiverin
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Dec 28, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    TomMcGiverin
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Dec 28, 2018