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Living in San Diego and on the beach and still looking for a girlfriend. Am I too choosy, are my standards too high?
If you are between 50 and 60 that would be ideal. Good looks don't hurt either.....smile001.gif)
Should you be interested in finding out more about me please try eightfiveeightseventhreethreezerosevensevenzero...smile001.gif

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I think you might be making the wrong impression...maybe you should give it another go...

I think this is the kindest response he's ever going to get. smile049.gif

@CaroleKay took me three tries and my delete key...ha ha part of my new year's resolution...let's see how long it will last...ha ha ha

@thinktwice You're a better woman than me. smile015.gif I. Just. Could. Not.

@CaroleKay I forgive your youthful impulses...ha ha ha How is your knee, btw?

A different go . A different approach altogether maybe.

@thinktwice I'm hanging in there, today is a good day, thank you! smile015.gif
... I see what you did there, Haha!

@CaroleKay actually, I am having knee surgery on Wednesday and thought of you...smile009.gif


Lmao! What? You mean YOUR looks? Are you drunk? You are 75! You are delusional. It's a good thing I'll be too old in a couple of weeks, dodged a bullet I guess.

I am 66 and I dodged that bullet by six years--not that you or I would have ever been attracted by that gun.

So, We are both in the same age group now! Hot diggity-dog-diggity!

@Sticks48 same age group but you are definitely not like him at all....

@thinktwice You are way too kind. smile001.gif

@Sticks48 No, you have proven it over and over with your respectful and intelligent posts...and you know when to stop while you are stop now...ha ha ha

@thinktwice Yes ma'am. smile001.gif

@Sticks48 would never act like this he's a quality gentleman and has respect for all women. This douchenozzle has zero respect for women, has clearly had too much sun and way too much wine.


How’s that approach working for you?

UUNJ Level 8 Jan 7, 2019

I swear, old white guys are going into their second childhood, more think like him than don’t.

I will agree. When I was in my 50s, a 80sh year old man stopped by my table at Wendy's to tell me that he was a widower and was looking for a woman to date and to marry. He asked if I were interested. I was not; he wanted to give his number to me in case I changed my mind, but I still declined. Hope springs eternal and all that.


I don't know how anyone else feels about this, but when you find that hot, unwrinkled woman, let us know--and post pictures so we can see your prize.

@PalacinkyPDX We women will be incredibly jealous and will regret that we didn't jump at the chance to date this winner. Oh, wait: I am 66, I didn't have a chance. No wonder I am so bitter.

@PalacinkyPDX I will learn to live without him and will move on with my life. Sigh . . . Memories . . . all alone in the moonlight . . .

@Gwendolyn2018 You two just crack me up! ha ha ha

Will do........

@seafarersd Will do what? If you mean post a picture, I can hardly wait.

@PalacinkyPDX My keyboard was "lucky" that I had nothing in my mouth when I read this. Otherwise, the food/drink would have been spewed all over it and the desk. And I am hoping he does not post a picture as what is seen cannot be unseen.


Are you by chance looking for a nurse with a purse? Seriously, I'm happy to have just passed your age cut off. One size does not fit all, and there is nothing worse than being in a relationship just to avoid being alone. Good luck to you.

Is that a caretaker form of golddigger? Never heard that one before... I'm probably too limited in where I go online or I need to get out more. Probably both......

@TomMcGiverin No, that is when an older geezers are looking for a younger (relative term) female to take care of them as they become less able. The female pays the bills (purse) and takes care of the physical limitations (nurse). Getting old ain't pretty and ain't for cowards.

@HippieChick58 Sounds like a bad deal for the woman, esp. since she's not going to come out rich like a golddigger. Where is the upside for the woman? What woman would sign up for that? Would have to be pretty desperate.

@TomMcGiverin Too many women are afraid of being alone and will settle for being the nurse with a purse to have someone in their life. If that is what floats their boat then I wish them well. That is not what I want, so I'm content to be alone until the right one comes along.

@HippieChick58 Agreed. If I felt that alone, I'd try getting a cat before I'd go that route. I prefer cats over dogs.

@TomMcGiverin I do too, and I live with two cats. I am content to be a doting grandmother and crazy cat lady rather than a nurse with a purse for anyone.

@HippieChick58 A wise choice, cheaper, less work, and unconditional love.

@TomMcGiverin the down side of doting grammy is the little ones are germ factories. I've had more colds since the babies came....


I think he must have missed out on that recent post about the golddigger posting on her phone a tribute to her late sugar daddy on the anniv. of his death. It incurred a lot of disgust on this site, but was so touching and heartfelt it brought a tear to my eye, (sarcasm alert).....

But you're all right, he should have used a better photo and maybe also posted a copy of all his financial records. As Ronnie Raygun might have said, Experienced golddiggers trust, but always verify.........

Thanks for all your comments, gang. This is the most laughs I've had all day.

That's probably the best photo he has.



Are you still laughing? smile001.gif


I hear Caitlyn Jenner is available.

mikebeed Level 7 Jan 7, 2019

Ding, ding, ding, I think we have the winner here!

@TomMcGiverin She’s a woman over 50, not a joke.

@UUNJ I hear you, but to me the joke is that she is exactly what he is NOT looking for...I'm not hating on Caitlyn or transexuals.

@PalacinkyPDX I'm no more bigoted than anyone else here, but glad you have X-ray vision so you can see everything about me, even tho we've never even met. I got the whole thing with Mike's joke all on my own, thank you very much. Would you like your block now or later? You don't know me at all, but you have some company on this site with the same sort of arrogance about others. You are not the court of, much as you'd like to be. Lighten up......

@PalacinkyPDX Glad I can do something to make you happy. BTW, you've also been reported.

@PalacinkyPDX Will you be my friend? This is funny AF

@PalacinkyPDX An "easy laugh"for myself and 5 others.Maybe this coming xmas you could ask Santa for a sense of humor!

@DoctoralZombie Too far away....smile001.gif)

@seafarersd Nope


I never thought I would say this, but guys like him make me appreciate the 50-something cougars I'm seeing on Match. They at least have the looks to seem plausible that they could date a young guy in his mid-30s or early 40s without having to be a sugar mama.


That should attract LOTS of ‘em.


You are 75 years old and look every minute of those years; in fact, in comparing you to my 72 year old sister, you look A LOT older than she does. (And I am not intending to be mean, but since you emphasize looks, you need to be aware of how you look to women.)

Your "standards" are too high considering this. If you really want a younger woman, make sure that you advertise how much money you have. A lot of women, including those younger than your low range, will do anything for money. Does "living on the beach" mean that you have a tent pitched in a homeless camp?

On the other hand, some women prize intelligence above money, and this post exhibits no sign of that.

PS: How old are the photos on your profile?

As a former co-worker of mine said about another co-worker that we both despised, on his B-day cake event at the job, " He doesn't look a day over 100".

@TomMcGiverin Ha! Well, this guy looks well into his 80s (not quite 100). I find that people often overestimate how young they look. I have had men tell me that people "always" tell them that they look younger than their years. I always reply, "No, dude, trust me: you do not look younger." They are consistently shocked that I say that. I am told that I look younger than 66, but I don't: this is what 66 looks like. If people my age look older than I do, it is because they look older than their age, not because I look younger. I am not susceptible that fallacy.

@Gwendolyn2018 Actually, the co-worker that was having the B-day was, I think, in his early 70s, which is what made the 100 wisecrack so funny.

@TomMcGiverin I figured that!

@Gwendolyn2018 Well, Gwen, bless your heart... That's what you get when you confront the delusions of a vain man. Sort of like confronting the delusions of a schizophrenic. It might be fun, but it won't get you anywhere and it will only confuse them.

@TomMcGiverin But it does get me someplace! About 95% of the time, said men are hitting on me; when I share my thoughts, they leave me alone. I lose more potential dates that way . . .

@Gwendolyn2018 Oh, I didn't know the conversations were in that context or setting. As for potential dates, no loss there....Very effective way to send them away.

@TomMcGiverin Believe it or not, some men have no idea how to "impress" a woman. Some men think that a woman will agree with anything that they say. I am not that type of woman. smile001.gif

@Gwendolyn2018 Well Gwen, I think we've all realized on here that you're not that type of woman. Too bad a lot of the IRL world hasn't gotten the memo yet, lol.

@TomMcGiverin Men often read into me what they want me to be, and many men my age and in my area like fairly submissive, old fashioned women. As I have noted in another discussion, because of my long hair and because I often wear dresses/heels, this can make some men think I am that "type" of woman; then, I open my mouth.

@Gwendolyn2018 We all know better Gwen, but woe to the unsuspecting offline world, lol. I think you just enjoy messing with them, you naughty girl......

@TomMcGiverin Well, yeah--is it that obvious?


I don't play the game.....but I know whose turn it is

Smart man. ♥

@CaroleKay home schooled


This post reminded me that this site is actually a dating sight as well as a community affair (I had forgotten that point). It also reminded me of why I find (most) men my age and older unattractive? ?

Most men look still good at 85 + but women.......smile001.gif)

@seafarersd Wow, for someone who is trying to attract women, you really should re-assess your approach.


Yeah, you are. Let us see you are 75 and you want a girl friend who is 15 years younger then you, that is a start.

Jolanta Level 8 Jan 7, 2019

And remember, AT LEAST 15 years younger--he does not rule out women in their 50s!

As I get along with that age group that is what I'm looking for.

@seafarersd Really the other "age" groups are way to cleaver for you I guess.


Good luck to you.

KKGator Level 9 Jan 7, 2019

Attention Gold Diggers....for a good time call

I mean, why spell out the numbers? Just post them, dude.

Given that the average life expectancy of a male in your obvious physical shape is 78.6, someone is going to inherit a house on the beach in 3 years.

Jump on it, ladies. LOL

Now that's funny.

My mother made it to 99............smile001.gif)


Oh good are such a cliche. 🥺


At 75, you want a 50 year-old woman? Dream on.

I said 50 to 60......smile001.gif)


Yeah, that's it, too choosy.


Thanks for all your comments. Learned a lot but....... I know with whom I get along and with whom not.
A couple of nice comments but most ridiculed me....... so who cares.
BTW ladies........ I don't mind some wrinkles but not all of them after 60 or so. Some of you will look good after that age but most....... will look on the down side ....... just look at Nancy Pelosi and of course all her plastic surgery..... she can hardly smile.... Sophia Loren on the other hand is still gorgeous.
Will keep looking though despite some snide comments.......smile001.gif)

Wow, so glad I'm too wrinkled to be pursued by you. I was hit on yesterday (in real life) by a handsome 45 year old guy, who had no idea I'm a lady of leisure with a place on the beach. Curious what wrinkles have to do with not being a beautiful person? I guess that's in the eye of the beholder. You will definitely tick more women off with your attitude than you will attract. Good luck to you!

I won't take back anything I said about you, but I sincerely have to give you some props for having the balls or gall, depending on how you look at it, to come on and reply to us. I know I wouldn't have. But then again, I would never be so crass or deluded in the first place......

Dude, read my lips: you are no prize in the looks department. You don't like wrinkles? Younger women don't like grizzled, wrinkled old men any better than you like wrinkled old ladies. Not that you would live long enough to witness it, but in a few years, that 55 year old woman with whom you hook up will have wrinkles. This is a classic case of a double standard.

Um ... you DO realize that a woman between 50 and 60 will continue to age, right? And you're basically saying she's going to be discarded as Insufficiently Hot after a few years? Just how stupid and desperate to you think ladies generally -- much less ladies on this site -- are?

Glad you showed up. We don't want your shallow, drunken, ready to stroke out, sunburnt, immature ugly, old ass in the first place. I'm insulted that you think us Agnostic ladies would even fall for that. You let me know if someone falls for this shit. I'll wait right here.

i can see from your response you learned nothing. you care only about how someone looks, which is what you indicated in your initial post. you don't care who ridicules you. that can be a good attitude, or it can indicate that you have not yet figured out how ridiculous your post was. you want, you want, you want, but we have to click through to find out what, if anything, you have to offer. so then what is the profile for? what is the comment for? what are the majority of your posts, about looking for someone, for? we have to go somewhere else? you're so interesting SO far we're tempted to click?



It must be the viagra.

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