Isn't www.agnostic.com supposed to be the cure here ?

Tell me about it.....

I've not read a newspaper in a while,but the demise of the personal columns in them,and the singles newspapers,have led to the growth of the online dating sites,good and bad. There are introductory services,for a $$$ will "Set you up" with a suitable potential partner, but the $$$, drives all activities,it seems....

Too much demand for instant gratification - with little patience for "courting", the time it takes to really know someone. And then, many of us are all shut away - often by choice - in our own single lives. Less mingling, less socializing. Fewer social venues that people are willing to go to. More online time. Excess instant judgment , suspicion, fear, and categorizing .
Makes an already challenging endeavor, that much more of an uphill battle.

I can only fake my help for you to find another love who is chosen for love that is not mine

We've all got so fussy and judgmental. No one is good enough.

I would say it is only difficult for me personally to meet anyone due to my rural location, but being a loner, an introvert and almost a recluse doesn't help much either.