If a guy or girl straight up asked you to have sex with them, how would you respond to it?
As a student in the mid seventies a friend of mine had read an article in Cosmopolitan that 1 in a 100 women would accept if asked outright by a stranger to have sex with them. He spent the next 6 months asking every woman he met socially this very question. As far as I am aware his success rate was somewhere between nil and bugger all.
Let's rephrase the question; Suppose you are at a friends house and they are having a party. You don't know everyone there but you know your friend enough to trust what kind of folks they would invite to their home. You live close enough that you chose to walk there. Over the course of the evening, you repeatedly see an attractive person there that you don't know. It's been a long time and so you cross the room and engage this person in conversation and after several minutes you sense a connection and then out of nowhere, they ask you if you'd like to go somewhere more private. Yes or No.
Back in my day it was 'ya wanna ball?' And the answer was -always- yes. Oh, yesss.
If I've known her for at least awhile, I'd say let's get crackin'!
Depends on what she looks like, how old she is, and if she is disease free or not. Other than that, two consenting adults, why the fuck not, have at it!
Men: No Thanks
Women: No, Yes, Maybe it would depend
Straight up I tell them, I don't do children so they can fuck themselves.
I would ask him what he would want me to do, and if I thought I would enjoy him. He was being honest!
I'd tell them
Thanks but I'm married, thanks anyway, but just for your information, you're coming on a bit strong, a bit quick.