If a guy or girl straight up asked you to have sex with them, how would you respond to it?
"Geez woman, let's at least get dinner and some condoms first."
OK, no to a guy, I have never been hit on by a guy yet I have many gay friends.
I am a kind "soul" last Easter I was asked by a lady I knew if I would have sex with her as it had been 7 years. I spent the weekend at her place, the sex was not good. I have both agreed and declined in the past. I don't have hangups about it, as long as I don't dislike the lady and she is not in a relationship, I am pretty certain I would agree most times. Since my last relationship ended 14 years ago there have been a couple of occasions where I have met someone and we are not interested in each other but the lady wished for sex. I like the direct approach, I am useless at reading people.
However if it was a total stranger in the street, I would probably run, same reason I don't pick up hitch hikers, if a lady is broken down I ring the breakdown service.
Honestly? If a girl I was attracted to asked me to have sex, I'd ask her where she wanted to do it lol
People can be asking to have sex with us subtly all the time. We just might not pick up on it.
One guy blatantly wanted to have sex with me one time. I was in my early 20s and in the subway. This guy came up to me and said, "Hi, I'm Roxy. You look like you have a big dick.". I never had that happen before and I didn't know how to handle it so I looked up and said, "Nah nah nah!" lol. He literally started running away. He probably thought I was going to get violent. I was just shell shocked really lol
I would refuse, but it would it would depend on the person, and how it was asked, as to whether I would feel offended, just amused, or worried.
So far, here in Thailand, three Thai married women bosses (stunningly beautiful, young) have asked me to stay over, or openly propositioned me. In those cases I had to be very careful to help them save face. In two cases, I politely explained that I don't take lovers, and in one, I simply acted "dense" and pretended not to understand the point after my boss asked me on a birding trip to see "nesting hornbills," by Krabi.
I went to Krabi with her (she had me at "nesting hornbills" ) ), but didn't allow anything to happen afterward.
By the way, despite my being demisexual, many men could date me if they asked me on a birding trip, and that's how I started dating my ex. He didn't particularly like birds himself, but went with me on a rock-climbing/birding trip and sat with me high on a cliff for hours to observe wildlife and birds below and take photos.
He was a busy airline pilot flight instructor, but carefully courted me for over a year, despite my lack of encouragement.
I assume you mean stranger. No, I don't know them and there are way to many questions I would have before I considered sleeping with anyone. I'm no prude, I just prefer to know my partner on a deeper level.
If a good female friend of mine asks, and I find her attractive and know it won't get weird, then I would probably agree. I've seen me do it. Lol.
People can do what ever they want though. What happens between you and another consenting adult in private is your business.
I would agree with others here that say it would depend on a lot of different factors. When I was young and sexual freedom was the way things were this wouldn't even be a question. It's happened to me many times but not in the last 50 years or so. But these days there's just so much to consider. Like, do I feel in the mood and does she help me get in the mood by the way she handles the situation. Is there protection available, make sure this is not some film flam operation. and just how feverish I'm getting. I don't think any rational adult could say absolutely NO, or absolutely YES without figuring in the variables.
If it was a girl I'd say no. If it was a guy, maybe. You never know.
I had to think about that one. I remember a his and hers T-shirt. His said: "just because I will sleep with you doesn't mean I love your". Hers said: "Just because I love you doesn't mean I'll sleep with you". Mine would say: I would have to love you to sleep with you"!
Really depends on my attitude at the time. I have use the following to divert folks. "I gave at the office", "doctor says I'm still contagious & to finish my meds this time" "cute. How often has that worked for you in the past?" "Sorry, I'm a sapiosexual & I really don't think we're compatible"
I would be looking for the pranksters!
That sort of stuff just doesn't happen to me, but if they were attractive and could convince me of the sincerity of the offer, then probably would give it a go (with a female)
not into guys, so they would get a polite no.