In H.S. 4 of us girls were best freinds in the 70s. One of them (married) moved out here to FL, I let them stay for 3 months till they got jobs/apt. Finally they did. Long story short I'm moving again and they have a bed frame here. I left husband a nice messg to pick up their bedframe. Nothing happened for 2 weeks. Spoke to wife and I said, "please come get the bed cuz you can ask Sue (one of the girls) what happens when I move out and someone doesn't retrieve their stuff."
THEN she called me to scream that I threatened her. HOW did I threaten her? I told her to ask what happens to stuff left behind iwhen I move. Sometimes I just do not have the emotional capability of understanding people.
Same girl was an alcoholic and she goes to AA meetings 3x a week. I thought they were supposed to apologize for things they did to other people in their lives. No apology for hitting a bar before driving out to my house 2 hrs late after a celebration of my husband's life (died). She asleep (drunk) on my couch still wearing a coat.
That's why I adore my dogs.