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In H.S. 4 of us girls were best freinds in the 70s. One of them (married) moved out here to FL, I let them stay for 3 months till they got jobs/apt. Finally they did. Long story short I'm moving again and they have a bed frame here. I left husband a nice messg to pick up their bedframe. Nothing happened for 2 weeks. Spoke to wife and I said, "please come get the bed cuz you can ask Sue (one of the girls) what happens when I move out and someone doesn't retrieve their stuff."
THEN she called me to scream that I threatened her. HOW did I threaten her? I told her to ask what happens to stuff left behind iwhen I move. Sometimes I just do not have the emotional capability of understanding people.
Same girl was an alcoholic and she goes to AA meetings 3x a week. I thought they were supposed to apologize for things they did to other people in their lives. No apology for hitting a bar before driving out to my house 2 hrs late after a celebration of my husband's life (died). She asleep (drunk) on my couch still wearing a coat.
That's why I adore my dogs.

K9Kohle789 8 Feb 16
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I guess that's why they say the more you get to know people, the more you like dogs.....

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Long time friends take patience.

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Well you certainly tried to help her and she is not really holding up her end. Don’t take it personally it’s her illness I guess .You deserve better in your life do not let her drag you down.

@K9Kohle789 As a Widower (2 years in Sept) I sympathize,the loss of a spouse leave a hole in your soul,when a couple marries,death is never thought of,but I remember a Pastor saying to the newly married couple he officiated at, "One of you will bury the other"perhaps brutal in description, but rational,no one lives forever,one day or night will be our last on this earth......

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