I can't believe that as old as I am, when it comes to talking to women I'm interested in, whether on here, or in real life, I'm immediately tongue-tied and idiotic. I feel like I'm 14 again. If I pretend like there's no interest in either direction, or if in fact there is no interest, then I'm fine. But the minute I perceive interest on either side, it's over. What do I do?