Me: Hello
Him: Well Hello Sexy.
Me: I read your profile. Well written. What did you think of mine? Do you have things in common with me?
Him: Nice pics
Me: Oh I thought maybe you read my profile.
Him: Nice tattoo
Me: It has special meaning to me.
Him: When can I see the whole thing?
Me: I see your a Christian. I’m Agnostic. I wrote it in my profile.
Him: What’s that?
Me: Google it
Him: Oh I see. I don’t think we’re a match. I’ll pray for you. God bless.
Omg!!! I get this all the time!!
Your thoughts?
At "nice pics"--since he didn't answer your question, it should have been over. Depending on how you want to treat him you could come back with "prayers don't work," or "idiots don't get to see my tattoo" or "no amount of prayers will let you see that whole tattoo" or maybe "god doesn't exist"
My reply. “I will pray to Satan for you” lololol
Ive been on fb dating for a couple months now.. anyone who messaged me turned out to be a bible thumper except for one..
What is wrong with this world!!! Lol
At least you have a profile for him to ignore. This is todays nonsense. Just 2 nice pics and the mandatory bits filled in.
Me - Hello Joanne, you look lovely. x
Her - Hi thankyou x
Me - Hi and your welcome.
Your profile is a little sparse so can tell me what you like to do in your spare time Joanne? x
Then nothing and once again ghosted
I don't think you can count yourself ghosted after one single messenger exchange.
I have had men tell me that they love my picture Problem is, I have none on my profile. I also have men tell me that they love my profile and believe we are a perfect match. When I ask them what part of my profile they liked I never hear from them.
And yep, I would get those "you're perfect for me" from a person who has absolutely nothing in their profile, or when I look it says they are a Christian and serious about it.
@kiramea Completely and uttering agree with everything you stated. Bizarre isn’t it?
I agree you do have nice pics. Oh wait you meant on the theist, if they are being them and you're being you. It really shouldn't matter which sky wizard if any you are sending prayers to.
Generally, I do not put much value on a conversation that happens out of the blue, it is much more likely that if you are going to click with someone, you have already had conversations about different issues that are not related to any form of direct relationship. A conversation like that, that comes out of the blue, holds very little weight, in my regard for it. So generally speaking, I am not very hesitant to tell someone like that to fuck off. I get IMs all the time on my Facebook account, and if I have not seen them in a conversation or talked to them before, they generally get ignored, I do not even respond to their first message. (Given that I have 3750+ friends on there, it is not practical anyway). Those who participate in the community forum are much better suited, proven, and one might even say have a pedigree for common ideas . . . . that is how I see it anyway.
Thank you.
Can I please see your whole tattoo.
No and hell no!!! Lmao!!!
It's not just the religious. Maybe it's just guys. (Not trying to be mean).
I've gotten generic messages. "I read your profile, I think we have a lot in common." Or just "Hey there, I think we are compatible, want to talk?"
Then I read their profile and think WTF did they think we had in common?
I'll reply, "What exactly was it about my profile that you found interesting?"
The response is generally, again, very generic. I flat out asked one guy if he just sends out the same message to everyone and hopes for some nibbles. Of course he wrote back that I was an angry bitch who needed to get laid.
I'm old and suspect that there are few fellows my age on sites so it is possible that someone is paid to send out generic messages to try to encourage women to buy the packages. Could be I'm just jaded.
Hmmm...well, I typically start off with "Heya! Nice profile and pics", unless the profile is crap. With you're profile, I would probably say something like "Heya! Nice pics - profile was meh. Lots of generic adjectives that don't really say much about you as a person. How about you tell me something specific about you?" That's just how I roll though...
It just gets so blah blah blah most of the time. So I switched to this site. I’m really not a great texting type. Things get misinterpreted or they’re catfishing Who knows. I really don’t like texting but it’s the way of the world now.
You can take some steps to more quickly identify someone you'd like, to meet and spend time with, by using a few good screening strategies.
Once contact is made, exchange only a couple of messages and suggest a call. A catfisher will quickly disappear at that point, while a guy who's serious about connecting will welcome getting to know you better over the phone. Speaking with someone is very different from texting and you will learn SO much more very quickly.
Most men offer their number right away, but if he asks for yours, ask if he wouldn't mind giving you his. Then block your number when you call. Decent men realize there are safety issues for women online and will acquiesce throughout this process.
The guy you never wanted to meet in the first place will vanish at this point.
Hone your screening skills so you end up meeting fewer men, who are worth your time, as opposed to a lot of creeps.
@LovelyLady4U @Athena I hate texting. It's ok for "What time we gonna meet" "7PM" - but anything beyond a 6 word sentence is more effective in direct voice communications. Unfortunately, most people today gravitate to text instead of actually talking to each other. My rule is, if she seems flaky, I give her no more than a week of texting - after that, it's a phone conversation or I'm on my way. And honestly, the whole 'scary world' argument is b/s IMO. I have heard that excuse, but when pressed MOST women have never been actually stalked, raped, or assaulted from a guy they gave their number too. It is usually just some creep that they are not interested in, and he continually bugs them which just makes them a bit uncomfortable and annoyed in having to deal with a needy loser.
Had this conversation been between him and me, I think it would have turned out a little differently (well it wouldn't have involved a tattoo because I don't have one--but we can pretend).
When it got to the "I see you are a Christian" part. I would have said "I am an atheist."
And, I rather think his response would have been: "be gone with you Satan."
With what he seemed to be going for, what would lack of religion matter? Do you want to share the special meaning of the tattoo?
Ya the tattoo represents my dead parents and my heritage. How sexy does that sound? Lol. Completely true.
@LovelyLady4U Probably not the sexy story he would have wanted to hear. Maybe why he didn't ask. Sounds special to me though.