I have enough money to pay my own way, but I will not date a woman who expects me to pay her way like what you seem to be describing. Seems too much like being a sugar daddy, which to me smacks of prostitution-lite. I am not very materialistic and would need someone to share that with me if it was going to work out.

@TomMcGiverin That's the modern way but there are still some woman who expect the man to pay

@Moravian They can find and expect someone else as far as I'm concerned. I will not date someone who is materialistic and ok with being exploitive.

I had a series of conversations with someone recently. He smoked cigarettes and weed and expected sex with women on the first date yet I was the morally dubious one because I'm not religious.

@ElusiveMoby I actually dated someone for 23 years and she finally decided I wasn't going to be one with God. And I was good with it.

@Philistrate The only God's that exist are found in moments of extreme intimacy, especially sexual.

@ElusiveMoby Yes, that seems to be one aspect of tantra. That is, boundless sexual orgasmic heights bring moments of exhilaration and possibilities of Enlightenment.

@mischl I like the way you write!

@ElusiveMoby You are well educated. Naturally, you like people who write well. So do I. A lot.

@ElusiveMoby is that why I scream out, "oh my fucking god when I cum"? I thought it was either that or there actually is a Fucking God.

I assume that "Oh my god" is an accurate response to unbelivable sex.