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I'm a curvy girl!

With that said, a man from this site messaged me to tell me admitting to my curves eliminated most of the available men for me--"And that's a fact Baby." How polite! Like I hadn't thought of that before? Gotta wonder why a guy feels the need to send words like that.

ElusiveMoby 7 May 1
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I must say, I'm really disappointed reading some of these comments.

Had the post stated this woman was shamed by this man, for being too thin, that would have incited responses to support her as well.

Why must there be any commentary shaming any body type here? We are all people, who come in different shapes. We don't choose our genetics at birth.

For those of you referring to people of any shape, in such a derogatory way, I'll ask that you please consider this before your statements.

It's unnecessary to go there, in order to offer support, and it's really not nice.

  • I'm adding that I notice a few of those comments have disappeared from the time I posted this.
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He was a asshole I prefer women that have a better body than my 16years old grandson

Like yours

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He sounds like a negger. "Negging is an act of emotional manipulation whereby a person makes a deliberate backhanded compliment or otherwise flirtatious remark to another person to undermine their confidence and increase their need of the manipulator's approval.".

Or a jerk?

Frankly I'd block him.

I'm pretty sure there are plenty of men who are interested in all types of body shapes here. Remember men outnumber us greatly. (True of most dating sites).

This idgit was trying a head game.
What a twat.

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Sounds like he was a self loather lacking self control. Wasn't worth your time. I'm sorry you had to deal with someone like that.

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Who cares? Anytime people are rude, crude, or lewd, I go to their profiles and block them, and if what they said was aggressively offensive, I flag them to the admin.

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Can’t address why idiots do things. Just know that there are men who are attracted to extremely obese women just as there are men who are attracted to emaciated women and every type in between. There are men who are attracted to women for reasons other than body type. It may be hair color, eyes, or intelligence or personality or even something as simple as a smile.

So, ignore the idiot. He is rude, unthinking and perhaps cruel. He has his preferences. Be glad you are not to his taste. You wouldn’t like him. He lacks the qualities you most likely want in a man.

Good luck in finding the right person for you.

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His statement is far from true. I personally appreciate a woman with curves and respect and admire the women that aren't shamed into hiding it.

Unity Level 8 May 6, 2019
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I thought all girls have curves???

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When I look around at most people, I see that that fathead is Waaaayyy out of touch with reality!

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This jerk deluded himself to claim the 9 idiots he hangs with all screw skinny females and insult all women who don't fall for the repulsive cretins leering

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He's an ass hole.

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It seems that my support of @ElusiveMoby has been deleted after a complaint, because two people here decided that my support of her saying That men like women of all shapes and sizes and that the Zero size women portrayed in in the media as an ideal of how a woman should look is a myth is
"Thin Shaming"
Well congradulations I have been well and truly put in my place for trying to be nice to a fellow member, to support someone who came under attack by a troll.

@altschmerz it was not at three o'clock this morning, after I contacted admin it must have been put back.

Edit it is back but some of my replies to comments have gone

Thank you

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Do you REALLY think you are the only one? Narcissists are everywhere

nogod Level 7 May 2, 2019
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He felt the need to send that message, because miserable trolls love the internet. In daily life, they have to actually have a spine to stare someone in the eyes and risk being told "gfys" or being punched in the face. Online, safely anonymous and tucked away in their little box-forts of bs and misery, they can safely get away with anything. Also, he's probably about as emotionally deep as an acne scar. Just remember--any person worth being in a relationship with and offering your love and friendship to will know that true beauty really does come from within and is far from being skin-deep. You know who you are; never let some trivial, maladjusted and mean-spirited moron impact that for a second. Praise the "block" feature, use it, and put it out of your mind! 💐

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