My husbands family is pretty religious. I sort of was when we married and attempted to join churches with him. That’s when he told me he wasn’t interested and considered himself agnostic. Great! I have pagan leanings. Cuz it’s fun and you can pick which mythologies you want to follow or enjoy. I still have a pretty firm moral compass but lately my husband is drifting off in some uncomfortable directions. I do Not want a divorce. I do not want an open marriage. I’ve always loved and gotten along fairly well with his family but they are pretty conservative and I really don’t trust anyone that voted for tRump. My hubs turns 60 in sept and is on a dating site ( doesn’t know I know.. and dummy as been seen and even hit on many of my friends). I monitor but honestly I can’t figure out why women don’t research. If you have a name and city. 20 minutes of scrolling or less you have them on Facebook! I am scared and devastated and it’s pretty awful to have women I know and train with telling me they have seen his profile on dating site! Gah.