I tend to be extremely insular on just about everything simply because I don't want to have to deal with extranious things that usually don't have any relevance to my being. I guess you could call me an "ultimate-introvert", yet my actions tend to be in opposition to such. I always consider others opinions and value them over my own. Yet often, choose to ignore all of the above and just do my own thing and doing so has usually just only caused trouble. I'm now a 20yr retired Army vet and am tired of all the political BS going on.
We have special interest groups you probably want to stay clear of. Welcome.
It is possible to consider political and religious speeches in the same light as the postman. Friedrich Nietzsche: "The postman is the agent of rude surprises. One should reserve and hour each week for reading the mail and afterwards take a bath."
The main difference between the 2 is that political actions can be seen, felt and heard as opposed to religion, which can only be heard & or sometimes seen when people kill in the name of their religion. Both can also be good and bad, sometimes at the same time. For what benefits some will usually end up hurting others. All a matter of balance I guess.
We're all a little tired of the political BS and personally I think political correctness will be the downfall of society. I think tolerance and diversity are good, but some people are disguising weakness with tolerance so that if you say there's a problem with illegal immigration they call you a racist, or if you say men and women are good and bad at different things they call you sexist or if you say you are proud of your country they call you a xenophobe.
If you like conservative ideals as in not right wing or left wing but somewhere in the middle I recommend the conservative athiest group.
I'm kind of a middle of the roadish politically, fiscal conservative but social liberal. Had conservatives stuck with what they're good at and only dealt with fiscal issues, they probably could have kept me in their fold. However, obviously they didn't, are a constant source of deceit, and regularly tout their religious credentials as if that makes them qualified for any government position. IMO, religion is a crutch for the weak of mind or weak of will. Those who are neither are either simply gullible or are cognitively dissonant.
@Aarkonn
Fair enough. Most people are a mix of political beliefs. For example, I'm conservative about guns but I'm liberal about drugs (as long as no body is killed).
So I'd say any law abiding citizen who passes a background check and has no criminal record can get a gun and go shooting however often they want, concealed carry will require a license and psychological assessment.
I'd set up a special recreational zone about half a day north or south of my city where drug users can go there and do drugs legally. As long as they park their cars outside and pay a small fee to enter, they can do drugs, party and use government produced drugs for quality control. I don't like drugs personally but I can't stop others from wanting to do it.
I’ve often wondered if folks like you aren’t several lifetimes ahead of me..? I’ll burn myself out on some politically motivated project/ election, then notice those having spent equal time on their own lives appear to be ahead in comparison… But I can’t stop myself, can’t stand injustice ... and have felt ‘I’m fighting for those who can’t, not those who won’t.’ But it can feel like a battle on multiple fronts..
Politics appears to be necessary bullshit. And, it’s tuff! You blend your personal feelings with the needs and desires of the majority of your community/ county/ state or nation … so just when & where do you ignore your feelings and promote or protect those of majority..? I’ve never done the military, but feel I’ve plenty of civilian scars
Often folks scream loudest who don’t share your views, yet are unwilling to support their own. It can be harsh, and if outnumbered, you can feel wrong or ‘punished’ in some way … but that doesn't make you wrong for standing up. Beyond my ‘military childhood,’ I never joined. Perhaps trained to follow orders leaves you doubting what would be your own? And leadership is trusting your gut ... then preparing to take a gut-punch Often the quiet have the most to say, just find your voice ~
True enough, politics are somewhat of a necessary evil that manipulate people and play on people's emotions. Yet to an extent, can and do help issues that aren't held hostage by corporate interests such as big pharma & the military industrial complex. I support my views by voting. Many believe it's wasted time being as how I vote blue in the heart of a deep blood red state of TX, 2nd only to Arizona in redness.
When I see political or religious posts on Facebook , I check out the source of my friend's post , and block the source . For instance , Jeff reposts a not so funny joke from First Baptist Church . I click on the little string of dots at the top right of his post , select , " block , First Baptist Church ," My friend Jeff will never know I've blocked everything anyone ever reposts from First Baptist Church , he's happy , I'm happy , we continue to be friends , and I'll never have to see anything anyone posts from that source ever again . Win win !
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Yes. I do this as well. Effective....
I do this daily. It's been the only way I've been able to stay on Facebook.
I do this too, however, I have no idea how in the heck 1 person can be a part of literally 1000's of similar sites, all of which I block. Yet every day, a new 1 pops up. I know I have at least 10,000 blocked sites, yet still see their crap almost daily. It's enough to drive a person to being as batty as the people who follow such sites!!
Well i can say this for sure ... I recently read an article about a study suggesting humans were a little too packed into their spaces and that in the densest urban area's There was up to a 75% prevelence rate in psycosis. Simply to survive. The only way to avoid that psycoisis is become a little more insular ... Sounds familiar? I strive for balance .. not easy .. politcal state definitely doesn't help!
[academic.oup.com] another one - not one i had seen
I don't think it has to be too urban just intense enough.... modern life .. i would not suggest you have any illness at all .. i would suggest you are partly doing the right thing .. maybe listen too !!
I'm always blathering on about how humans are pack animals and not hive workers...though that's what our current culture reflects due to our industrialist, capitalist economies.
I don't believe we're meant to live in these huge groups. It does cause problems because it's not natural to us.
@Freespirit64 Exactly ... I always say back in the day .. Before conurbation built up, if people were sad or mad they could just go for a little walk up the lane / in the fields and be away from everyone easily. Nowdays I can't go fifteen miles into the wilderness without meeting some dickhead with a portable speaker, a solar panel drinking lager and throwing the cans and his crisp packets in the undergrowth lol... So it's hard to get that same sense of space.. We need our units & each other desperately, like air or water, yet the way things are it is a bit much for most I feel.
I'm of the opinion that everything is more about balance rather than being more 1 way or another. Good communities are those that watch out for each other and come together for mutual benefit in times of crisis. I've personally seen such from hurricane Harvey. Yet some communities also have the bad side effect of knowing more about your business than you do yourself. I've experienced this as well. I've lived in both rural and city environs. The only thing good about city life is that frequently visited stores and or other places for shopping and work are usually closer and make for a much shorter commute. The country I like for being able to walk just down the street and be in the middle of a forest, open prairie, river or creekside and see nature up close. Go dewberry picking, catching critters, hunting, fishing things you can't really do in the city. Where I live now is kind of a mixture of both and am quite happy with it. It's a planned community however, it's in a wooded area and in an HOA zone so it's really nice. Nearest corner store is within walking distance and there's a creek nearby you can go fishing in so yeah, it's pretty balanced.
The thing is, Elvis Presley, L. Ron Hubbard, Howard Hughes and Michael Jackson did the same sort of thing. Everyone needs to have someone that isn't afraid to tell them "That's crazy!" And they need to listen to that person too.