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A question for the guys: What qualities most impress you in a woman?

kathy21 4 Apr 12
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Other than the obvious, attraction, it would be intelligence, humor, kindness, and not a Republican.

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Intelligence, and once that be confirmed I'd take things from there.

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Independence and Intelligence

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They're all lying. We all know there are only two types of men: those who go for boobs and those who dive for the booty? 😛

kng01 Level 5 Apr 12, 2018

If this thread were for what women look for in men - then you show some honesty. Might get some points there 🙂

At least these men are trying to think further than their dick. You aren't, and that's all I need to know!

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A sense of humor and having something they stand for.

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honesty and integrity.

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One cannibal ask the other-

  • What do you like in a women the most?
  • Her eyes....
  • Sorry bro, I left you a leg this time?.

At first guys ALWAYS go for a look and how you girls move?.
But for the relationship to last - that's where we start looking for intelligence and kindness. That's how bad we are?

I'm aware! My pet peeve is how men can't seem to discern the word "woman" as opposed to "women." Men do it a lot, as if all women are the same, a monolith of identical pussy. I've never seen a woman do the same thing when speaking of a man or men.

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Is she comfortable with herself and sure to know what she is looking for.

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Twinkle in the eye, a take no prisoners attitude , relatively fit stature [ as we get older that takes effort] a caring disposition and a wiggle in her walk

I was slightly confused by the question . did it mean what attracts you to a prospective friend or what are women's best qualities ?

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Rhonda Rousey (before holly holm), Sophia Loren, Sally Ride, Maggie Thatcher and lastly Pam Grier all rolled into one, with Amy Schumer thrown in. Not much to ask, huh? My current partner is close, she has most of what I am looking for.

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A mischievous twinkling in the eyes.

MikaB Level 5 Apr 12, 2018

@SweetHarp If it doesn't, I'm screwed and never dating again.

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Intelligence,.integrity, compassion, confidence, charm, how she presents herself

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Intelligence, emotional warmth, sincerity.

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Intelligence, self confidence and sense of humor. The physical aspects are a nice touch.

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Honesty, openness, and a good heart.

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Emotional Strength and Balance, Sense of Humor, Smarts, Compassion and Integrity.

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Uniqueness

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Eyes and personality which I guess are interconnected. You know the eyes are the window to the soul. Sexuality is of importance too but that requires getting to know the personality.

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Shared interests, intelligence, sense of humor, confidence, introspection, among others.

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Honesty
Compassion
Independence
Rationality
Intelligence
Free spirit
Adventurous
Integrity
Open minded
Insightful

KDzo Level 4 Apr 12, 2018
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Brains and balls (figurative).

@sarahjustme doesn't flow as well.

What if she's smarter than you? What if she's a genius? I find most men don't handle that consequence well at all. Curious what you think.

@hemingwaykitten I've met my match before, and I enjoy it.

It'll sound egotistical, but I rarely do, so it's a treat when I can wax on long philosophical rants and actually be challenged and made to reconsider or defend something more deeply than I expected.

I was madly in love with a foreign national in grad school for just that reason.

She spoke more languages than me, she could run arguments more cleanly than I on a first pass, she fenced with me (figuratively and sabre, epee and foil) it was a lot of fun.

I was the better rider though. ?

I miss it.
And my ego can handle it.

@WileEQuixote Excellent...you give me hope for the future. Thanks!

@hemingwaykitten welcome and good luck!

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Rationality. Independence. The ability to talk about issues that bother them in a relationship with their partner. An open mind (when it comes to music or movies/tv shows). And wanting to spend time home instead of always going out.

Oh, and if the relationship gets that far, someone who is awesome in bed.

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Intelligence, integrity, and independance. I like spending time with women that have their own way, their own mind, and can teach me things.

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I'll know when I meet her.

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Confidence, self respect and empathy. Those are all important to being seld assured and those qualities create a character that is easy to respect

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