If it was "meant to be" then my future soul mate should just magically teleport into my apartment someday.
When you attempt a connection into another connection and it does not fit, one can assume the logical , that it will never fit, or one can think they can rework it, overcome powers of physics, change unchangable, cheat through it, waste valuable energy on what clearly wasn't "meant to be"
It is so hard for me to understand why people think 'meant to be' is a real thing.
Because it absolves them of responsibility
@Cyklone I mean, people aren't really responsible as free will doesn't exist, but that's that what I was referring to. I meant that people think that there was a goal in mind by some force instead of just deterministic cause and effect...