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Humans are strange. Nearly everyone of both sexes, would say that they find slim, fit and active people more attractive than the gluttonous and lazy.
Yet as soon as we are attracted to someone, nearly the first thing we do is tell them. " Sit down and let me get you something to eat."

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Yes but making someone fat and lazy, with the illness that accompanies that, is not kind really is it. Like I say, strange.

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I like my men full figured, tall and kind. I could care less about the trim or muscled figures, most are conceited anyway, I prefer kind!

Kind us number one on my list, too.

Yes that is what I look for in a woman, and the power to make interesting conversation, body shape is of no interest.

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Attraction in mind or not , feeding people is what we do in my culture / ways .
I mean , life revolves around foods and drinks and snacks and coffee 24/7 in Italy and Greece .
Not offering foods and not making time for your people to sit down for long times to talk and chew , is unheard 😂
But most of us we are not gaining weight , at least my generation . I think it might be bcz we walk everywhere we can ? Or bcz the types of foods we eat ? I don’t know . But absolutely feeding anyone I care for .

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That would only be in the US. Preferred body types everywhere else in the world are broader than 'slim'. However, I have been frustrated that shortly after the relationship becomes stable and reliable, the pounds pile on. After marriage, my ex-wife's stomach folded over her crotch in a matter of years. It's really not healthy to let oneself go like that. One gal bicycled everywhere and had a lean muscular body. It was sad to see her degrade it with beer. But, I also have my own work to do.

That is kind of my serious point behind the joke. Though I think it would be wrong to make it too sexist, as both sexes are capable of letting go and giving way to spoiling by their partners, when once they feel safe and stable especially..

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Hospitality is a human custom. The polite slim, fit, active person would accept the invitation…and eat as they chose.

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